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check out the cafeteria or main dining hall and eat there. if your son feels comfortable to do so, encourage him to introduce himself to some random students and get the real scoop on campus life. try to give him some space so that he can get a feel for the campus and student population, but don't get irritated if he holds back and becomes a little reserved.
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Let him off his leash. (Can you tell I had overprotective parents?) Let him meet and chat with other prefrosh and current students without mom and dad hovering around. He'll get a better idea of campus life that way - nobody will say "This is a huuuuuuge party school!" in front of mom and dad. Meanwhile, you might chat with other parents, take a walk around campus, or check out the city/town where the school is located - look at off-campus housing, restaurants, cultural opportunities like museums, etc.
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Amen to both of those!! Taking the official tour gives only the gloss of the place, they need to see if it is truly someplace they (not you) can see themselves fitting in.
After we toured, I dropped my sons off and told them to take a walk around campus, get something to eat, pick a spot to sit and just absorb the atmosphere.
I went and found a quiet outdoor restaurant where I could get a cup of coffee and read my book