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Old 07-23-2001, 04:53 PM
magnoliagrl magnoliagrl is offline
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My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0")
-Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular
-Into sports
-Republican and likes to talk politics
-Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha
-Clean cut
-Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans
-A good listener
-Very much into goals/academics
-The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha
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Old 07-23-2001, 06:06 PM
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Whoops...I deleted mine on accident...
so here it goes again

-Charisma, charisma, charisma
- Conservative ( I spent a lot of my high school career working for the Republican party)
- Good hygiene
- Clean cut and preppy (collared shirts, Reefs or white athletic shoes)
- Likes football and/or is passionate about at least one sport
- Is really good at at least one sport
- Will go outside at 3 am and toss around a football with me, just for the hell of it
- Has a good relationship with his family
- Improves my bad habits (i.e. eating healthier and making me study)
- Will go to the gym with me
-nice smile
-short hair cut
-dream car for the dream guy: Black SUV (for some reason this just makes a guy twice as attractive)
- Fights adamantly for his beliefs
- Driven ( goal oriented)
- Balanced with a social/academic life
-Loves the outdoors
- has compassion for the environment, the homeless, children and mankind in general
- Isn't overly emotional, wanting to "talk about the relationship" all the time
- Has to let loose and be goofy and immature at times
-Feels comfortable telling me anything...no matter how random or gross. He doesn't have to tell me everything, but shouldn't worry about offending me. He should talk to me as a close buddy, not always as a girlfriend.
- Will always take some time out for his brothers as I would for my sisters
- A plus if he was a boy/eagle scout and should be a fraternity man (not for the typical superficial reasons, but because these institutions build charachter in a man.)
- Likes me to cook and bake for him
- Likes road trips

Can't...
- be arrogant and condescending
- wear Teva type strappy sandals, black athletic shoes, socks with sandals, light colored/black tight jeans
- Have excess hair anywhere on his body ( No hair on chest and back)
- Be a regular drug user (preferably doesn't take any illegal drugs at all)


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Old 07-23-2001, 06:54 PM
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TechADPi,

Wow ... I fit most of your dream guy description Except I don't have green/blue eyes (dammit!). I have brown eyes. I LOVE travel as I travel a lot, been in 14 countries and 34 states ... and I'm from Iowa (hey! we grow corn here! so yeah, I have tan).

I am 5'11", and I love dogs. I don't know about your friends, but I'm pretty sure an ADPi would have all good friends that I will go along with (our ADPi chapter is awesome here). Cute dresser? Nice hands? Wow ... those are tricky ones. Hair chest? Hahaha .. really funny described.
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Old 07-23-2001, 07:43 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by magnoliagrl:
My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0")
-Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular
-Into sports
-Republican and likes to talk politics
-Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha
-Clean cut
-Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans
-A good listener
-Very much into goals/academics
-The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha
Magnoliagrl, it sounds like we're looking for the EXACT same guy!!

Megan

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Old 07-23-2001, 11:29 PM
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My dream guy criteria:
1)5'9 or taller
2)kind of husky
3)Does not expect me to go hiking, camping or anything invovling me getting dirty(I'm prissy-think SEx and theCity episode where Carrie went to Aidan's cabin)
4)i want my guy to be involved in sports, I will cheer him on- i was involved in sports in high school, but am not that good- I don't want to make an idiot of myself
5) Be on time- I never make a guy wait for me. I will be ready at 7 or whenever.
6)Baby me-cuddle me-no baby talk
7)Be able to sing or write me poetry
8)Have nice parents- i want to be able to get a long with a guys parents
9)Be classy when the ocasion calls for it- please don't get plastered at my formal and yell how hot i am!(LOL)
10)Know my friends
11)Don't put me down
12)Hair color doesn't matter
13)Preferably no braces
14)Give foot massages
15)Enjoy reading- this is one of my fave hobbies. I want to be able to discuss what i am reading. I don't read cheesy romances!
16)Make me laugh
17)Please be aware of my feelings- i get embarressed easily.
18)Please keep all rats and snakes away from me
19)Understand my need for icecream
20)Staying home and watching tv is ok- i don't expect you to spend money
21)Cook bc I don't and my family doesn't even eat my food
22)Love ME!!!


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Old 07-23-2001, 11:37 PM
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Oops I forgot these
23)Preferably republican
24)Goal-oriented
25)needs to be clean- but It's ok if not bc i am addicted to cleaning- you cook I clean-laundry, floors you name it
26)tolerant of cats
27)Car- doesn't matter : please no bullet holes(Yes I did date a guy who had a car that was shot at-it was riddled in bullet holes)
28)Opening doors is good- But I don't get mad if you forget!! I'm independant so most of the time i open the doors myself.
29)Please don't stink- cologne is nice- overkill is not
30)Hugs, Hugs, Hugs

Hopefully my guy's friends will like me- not be attracted- think I am worthy of their friend.
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Old 07-25-2001, 12:09 AM
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Qeequek-

So my dream guy really exists? I can live with that!!!! Where do you go to school? Are you in a Fraternity? Brown eyes are fine. They are just as nice to look into!


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Old 07-25-2001, 06:45 PM
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My Dream Girl


Shes Greek (Not the country ha ha and its got to be recognized by Panhell)

5'2-5'11. I'm 5'11 and dont want a girl to stoop over me. If she wears high heels and shes 5'11 we can work around it I guess.
Age: 21-35. Realistically I dont see it happening with someone younger than 25 basically because most girls havent dated enough and mentally their not ready for a guy like me (29). I'm not looking for marriage over night but shes got to be secure in herself and be very mature.

-I'm not picky on hair color. She has to take care of it and it has to look pretty. It can be either short or long. I guess it depends on the girl.

-I prefer a girl to be a bit on the heavier side with her chest (36+) and if not shes got to have a downstairs like Jennifer Lopez LOL. Hey shes my dream girl.

-She smiles often but shes entitled to her bad days. Shes very attractive. At least to me and she feels the same way about me.

-She doesnt have to like to cook or clean. I want it to be a shared relationship in that dept. because there will be loads of times where I'll cook for her. Yes, I'm not to shabby in the kitchen. Def. not the frugal gormet or justin wilson LOL but I'm not bad.

- She loves to cuddle and has to love hugs.

-Shes Republican, but if shes a Democrat thats ok I guess.

-Shes extremely Intelligent. She is very educated and she can talk intelligently about a wide range of issues.

-Shes extremely confident, but not arrogant. Not to the point where she feels that her time is more important than mine. Or that I am there only to serve her. Shes also outgoing to balance out my shyness. I want a girl thats going to challenge me and balance out my qualities. Like I'm a pretty shy guy in most instances.

-Distance. I'm flexible there too. Hawaii is a bit far I guess, but generally speaking if shes in the continental US I'm cool with that. She obviously has to be cool with it too.

-She has very classy and mature. Shes the kind of girl I can take home to Mom and Dad. She's my best friend and she values me. Of course she'd be my best friend and she would be my world too.

-She has interest in fitness. She doesnt have to be an olympic gymnist or swimmer but it would be nice if she has a regular schedule of working out. Being my partner would be a plus


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Old 07-26-2001, 03:19 AM
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Tech ADPi,

I go to Iowa State (Go Cyclones!) and I am Greek all the way ... really big in Greek now, and I am the only one from Cyclone Country here in GC ...
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Old 07-26-2001, 11:56 PM
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This is a cute topic
My dream guy :

1. Has to be Tall, I am talking 6'1 and up(sorry have to be shallow on that )
2. Athletic
3. Short touchable hair
4.Nice Dresser
5. Can make me laugh
6. Any color eyes , doesn't really matter
7. Strong, but not crazy strong
8.Not too skinny
9. Very good cologne, like Cool Water or Ralph Lauren Romance *
10. Soft Skin
11. Smart
12. Have fun party type guy, but in the same day and chill and watch tv or cartoons
13. likes animals

I know I probably have more, just can't think of them all, lol
DGPhoney~

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Old 07-27-2001, 04:55 AM
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hey i know my girl must be into me since i'm posting so late, and i'ts my first post in soo long since she's making me do it. ok lets start off i'm 5'7 taller than my girl not by much though but its all good, when it comes to dances it works out (her's and mine). Well for me i'm 172lbs, dimbled smile (i hoped i spelled that right), and always inshape since working out is one of my vice's but in the end it's a good thing. i have pic's on the spark.com as i say this my girl is punching me for typing that but i don't care-- owww-
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Old 07-17-2007, 12:47 AM
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It's a pretty long story! I'll make it short though! I hung out with him (Steven) for about 2 weeks straight. One night (a Saturday night) we went to his house after a party and had the best time (not like that.. he wasn't ever that lucky). I left at about 4am to go meet up with my friend at a party b/c i was staying the night with her and Steven called me, and we talked for another hour! I was really thinking things were great. Then i screwed it up the next night b/c we sorta had plans but not official and i never called him like i was supposed to b/c i was with other people all day at the beach and they had told us to come out to a party later so we took showers and went straight there.. he called me and i told him i couldnt talk b/c the cops were busting it and then when i called back he didnt answer. he has caller id.. he hasnt called since and i havent called him. SaDnEsS!
So this just proves that I am sooooooooooo not over my ex whose name is Steven, lives in Texas and loves to talk. I'm reading your story and if it hadn't been for your description, which doesn't fit him, I'd have to ask if it was my ex. LOL Not that that would be bad. It would mean that he was no longer with the skanky tramp he dumped me for


And so in answer to the thread....LOL:

Any Gilmore Girls on this thread? My dream guy is Jess Mariano. No, seriously, Jess has EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. He's positively gorgeous. I love dark haired guys who are thin and shortish and have their own style. It's the indie kid in me, I suppose. Plus, Jess is smart, a big city kid, a great conversationalist, he loves music and books, and is super romantic (Distillers tickets to make up for behaving like an ass....MARRY ME!!! No, really, I screamed it at my television). And the whole bookstore owner/book printer gig in his last appearance on the show doesn't hurt his image at all.

Fictional character not withstanding, I am totally in love with Jess. I even dig his bad boy qualities because he always lets them go when he's around Rory (er...me?). The only thing I would change is trade Jess' car for the cherried black Charger Milo's leaning on on my desktop.
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Old 07-17-2007, 10:24 AM
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So this just proves that I am sooooooooooo not over my ex whose name is Steven, lives in Texas and loves to talk. I'm reading your story and if it hadn't been for your description, which doesn't fit him, I'd have to ask if it was my ex. LOL Not that that would be bad. It would mean that he was no longer with the skanky tramp he dumped me for


And so in answer to the thread....LOL:

Any Gilmore Girls on this thread? My dream guy is Jess Mariano. No, seriously, Jess has EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. He's positively gorgeous. I love dark haired guys who are thin and shortish and have their own style. It's the indie kid in me, I suppose. Plus, Jess is smart, a big city kid, a great conversationalist, he loves music and books, and is super romantic (Distillers tickets to make up for behaving like an ass....MARRY ME!!! No, really, I screamed it at my television). And the whole bookstore owner/book printer gig in his last appearance on the show doesn't hurt his image at all.

Fictional character not withstanding, I am totally in love with Jess. I even dig his bad boy qualities because he always lets them go when he's around Rory (er...me?). The only thing I would change is trade Jess' car for the cherried black Charger Milo's leaning on on my desktop.
Maybe you should check the date on your post before you reply to a 6 year old thread?
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Old 07-27-2001, 02:41 PM
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Well I can only say that my dream guy is married..........to ME!!!!!!
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Old 06-25-2002, 08:10 AM
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I'm not sure if I'm the guy for you, I own a pair of Teva's (though they're leather and not the ugly black strappy kind), and my black car is no SUV....I think most of the other things fit me rather well though.. ...Or is that arrogant of me to say?
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