Question for the guys

[Billy Optimist]

are you gonna tell us his name?

[amycat412]

robert.

sigma nu alum. cornell u.

[Billy Optimist]

oooo an ivy leaguer, huh?

[amycat412]

yup. i do love those smart guys. hee hee

[Dewgirl]

dzrose, I had to check your profile to make sure we weren't dating the same guy Exact same scenario/timeline/everything, except I was the so-called "crazy ex" (interesting, I usually don't take letters and phone calls professing your undying love as a breakup)

The thing is, I keep taking him back.

Bad Ginger.

[dzrose93]

Dewgirl,

You are too funny! I took mine back a couple of times as well, so don't feel too bad... Finally, after he showed up at my place to tell me that he couldn't go out that night (like we'd planned to do all week) and wouldn't give me a reason, I just got fed up with the whole situation, threw a fit, and threw HIM out! Funny, he got real attentive after that, leaving presents at my door, showing up at work on my birthday, etc. Sucking up didn't work on me that time, though. Too little, too late!! So, keep at it. You'll be able to ditch him for good eventually - and you'll feel better and stronger for doing it!

[Dewgirl]

DZrose -

There must be a player rule book or something. Ryan is the exact same way. I've had 5 times more dates cancelled with him than we've ever been on, because he's mysteriously called away on business trips on less than a day's notice or "client meetings" at bizarre times (um, your client wants to see you at 11pm on a Sunday night? I don't beleive you) But, when he turns on the charm, I have no resistance whatsoever. Flowers, letters, sweet phone and email messages, suprising me at work, you name it, he's done it. And I always believe him that "his time will be more under his control from now on" and we'll see each other more. Suuuuure.

One of these days, oh, one of these days....