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Originally posted by Dionysus
It takes two to tango (or was it tangle? lol). A liar/cheater/deciever needs a sucker to deceive/cheat/lie to.
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I think this is only true if the sucker continues to allow the person to deceive/cheat/lie. If you stick around after the lying/cheating/deceiving, then you're the sucker. Just about everybody experiences a lie/cheat at least once (men and women!).
I dated the king of lies and cheating a couple years ago. Charming, intelligent attorney with a great sense of humor and lots of romance... after 6 months, he broke up saying he was getting back together with an ex. We stayed friends, he took me to medical appointments, fixed things around my house, etc. Great guy! One night he calls to ask me to email his gf because she was breaking up with him and he wanted her to hear how much he loves her from someone else. So, I email her telling her how good guys are tough to find, she should hang on to what she's got, etc. She emails back telling me what this "good guy" is like. Turns out they were ENGAGED the whole time I was seeing him (I had NO clue) and not only that, but she knew of at least 15 other women that he had seen while they were dating and she just found out about 5 more that he was CURRENTLY seeing while engaged to her. Talk about a sucker. She actually went back to him AGAIN. She PM'd me a few months later saying "You were right, he's never going to change" and she had found out about 5 or 6 more women he was seeing. Last I heard, they were engaged again <rolling eyes>. Why does she put up with it? Who knows????? I never spoke to him again after that day, except for one email telling him what I thought of him. So, the sucker is the one who continues to put up with it or believes he will change! He truly is the master of deceit and cheat.
With friends like that, I don't need enemies!
Dee
At my age, the good ones are married to someone else!
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