Things you want to say - Page 3

KappaStargirl · #31 12-23-2001, 04:34 PM

Paul- I still think about us sometimes. Yeah, I'm lame. BUt we were stupid not to have taken the chance, especially the second time around. I'm sorry I freaked out on you, that was dumb of me.

To the general public: It's Christmas. If you leave all your shopping until December 22 you WILL have to stand in line. Deal with it, there is not another cashier available right now. And yes, my Kate Spade is real.

#32 12-24-2001, 02:09 PM

This is one for people who shop for Kate spades on ebay...

yes I understand you want a REAL Kate Spade, but shut up and stop complaining the one you bought is not real. Why you ask? CUZ YOU BOUGHT IT OFF OF EBAY YA DOOFY HEAD. if you want the real thing go to Niemans or Kate Spade. Nough said.

(besides its not like you have to tell everyone its a fake)

AlphaSigLana · #33 12-24-2001, 11:09 PM

I would tell Angie to cut the crap. She is a compulsive liar and everone knows it. I am sick and tired of her always having the same story as someone else but of couse her's is ten times more dramatic or worse. I could write a book about the stories she tells. UGH!!! She is so caught up in her lies, I don't think she even realizes she is lying- hun your story shouldn't change everytime you tell it.
Iwould tell Nameless to f@ck off- "You haveno right to call me an alcoholic when I don't even drink every night or every week- especially when you are an addicted pot head who smokes it in the parking lot of our sorority house and can't even make it to meetings etc. My hangovers etc have never prevented me from going to class or work or meeting. So instead of worrying about what i am doing and yelling at me- look at yourself you hypocrite. At least i'm not bringing illegal substances into my house like you!!"

justamom · #34 12-26-2001, 11:59 AM

To neighbor #1-You stupid fool! I can't believe you gave your own daughter a "boob job" for Christmas. What are you saying to her? She's only 18 and this is the message you want to give? Next time get her a tutor so she will graduate and make something out of herself!

To neighbor #2-Oh just shut up! Nobody gives a rat's *$$ about your opinion-especially ME!

To the slime ball-Get your Frickin hands OFF me! Do NOT try to "cop a feel" we ALL know what you are doing! If you try to kiss me one more time I swear to god I'm going to pour any available substance all over your fat, brainless, balding head!

To my sister-in-law. I just don't like you..you're full of $**t! Quit telling your parents what to do with their money. It is THEIR money! Don't worry honey, you won't be left out of the will!

To my sis-I love you, but we are not competing! I really am a better cook than you! (J/J)

To Donna-I'm so sorry I waited too long to say goodbye. I hope you knew I was there.

KSigkid · #35 12-26-2001, 02:04 PM

Ok...well, here goes.

1) To ex-girlfriend from last year - you have problems (and not saying that to be funny, real problems), get help - being in school is the worst thing for you right now.

2) To Mr. Jack Daniels - THANK YOU

3) To the friends who seem like they enjoy having drama in their lives, and thus complain about everything - GROW UP. There are more serious problems out there, you shouldn't need an excuse to be happy.

That's about it. I think I've been able to say my peace with everyone else.

Collin

DeltAlum · #36 12-26-2001, 05:27 PM

"to my mom: Your the main reason I went away to school. I'm 20 not 3 so get over it and while your at it give me a DAMN CAR

To the rest of my family: Quit being so closed minded!"

Wow. What a mature sounding statement. I wouldn't be inclined to give you much of anything with that kind of attitude. Actually, that sounds more like 3 than 20. It's not OK to dump all over your parents and then expect them to support you. If you want to be on your own, be on your own. Otherwise, deal with the rules and regulations. If you're really twenty years old and can't stand your parents, go live your own life and support yourself. And buy your own damned car. Sorry.

And, by the way, just on the outside chance that your mother really loves you and has tried her best to raise you, think about how hurtful that kind of comment is. I wasn't all that kind to my mother and grandmother who raised me -- and they're both dead now. Wait until you get to deal with that.

And (calming down slightly) for those of you who complain about curfews, etc. when you're home on break, consider this:

Your parents have lives. They're different than yours. Some of them work. Some of them worry. Some probably can't sleep until you're in -- especially if you've been away at school and they're used to not having responsibility anymore. Or some of them probably wake up when they hear the door open and can't go back to sleep. Then maybe they're worn out the next day at work or whatever. Or maybe they're concerned about the example being set for younger siblings.

Go raise hell at school when you're only responsible to/for yourself.

Besides, they're your parents. They may love you and worry about you. They just may know more about the dangers and pitfalls of life than you do at this point.

Consideration goes both ways. I've been on both sides of this one and have the scars to prove it.

Some of you may have legitimate gripes. Sometimes there are extenuating circumstances, but some (not all) of you sound like little kids. "Support me, pay my tuition, buy me a car and lots of neat stuff, but don't you dare set any boundries."

Can you tell that some of you have finally pi$$ed me off? Congratulations. It's not that easy to do anymore.

Grow up.

#37 12-26-2001, 08:26 PM

umm, i wanna see who's gonna post after Deltalums's lil post

XO_Princess · #38 12-26-2001, 08:52 PM

i'm gonna post, but I'm not bitching about my parents, so here goes:

Ex-boyfriend: God, I can't believe I wasted so much of my life with you. I gave up my friends and family to be with you, and it took so long to win everyone back. Stop calling me drunk in the middle of the night. I don't give a rats ass about the party you went to and you never have anything imteresting to say. We'll never be friends, or anything else ever again, please just leave me alone. Oh yea-and I know what lies you told about me to people.

Friend #1: You have lots of money from student loans, and I don't, I actually have to work to get money, so could you please stop telling me how you have no money, but go shopping all the time? I get so sick of it. And you have no relationship with Ben!! He's not your bf, he tells you he needs space, nothing is happening, and I'm sick of hearing about it!!

Future Relative: Do you always have to talk about Williams Sonoma or Pottery Barn?? Why is your house a WS/PB catalogue? Why is your dish soap from WS?? Why are you always shopping at both store when you don't work, and your husband doesn't make much money, and you just had a baby!! And you want more kids!! How do you think this is going to work? And why-when you live so close to them-won't you go visit the baby's grandparents?? They want to see the child to, you know, and it's rude to only visit your parents, but not your husbands!!

alphachiohmy · #39 12-26-2001, 09:18 PM

the words I will never say to someone: Each year around this time, I am forced to be in the same room and the same house with you. We say hello and make small talk. It has been 10 years since it happened, but I will not forget. I want you to know how many tears I have cried, the shame and guilt and confusion you caused me to feel. But I have gone on. I am strong and you no longer haunt me. I have forgiven you, but I will never forget and I will never let you near my daughter alone.

33girl · #40 12-26-2001, 09:27 PM

To my friend S: Quit being immature and call your mom for crying out loud. I would give anything if I could call my mom, but I can't any more, and you can. Not to mention that she put a roof over your head when your deadbeat dad was God knows where. If you need meds to straighten out your head, get them.

To my coworker: Do you realize how shallow and materialistic you sound sometimes?? Do you know how asinine it is to bitch about not being able to get the upholstery you want in your new car? And if you buy makeup other than Estee Lauder, your face won't fall off. (XO_Princess, I think she's related to your Pottery Barn-obsessed future relative.)

To my other friend J: For once in our relationship I yelled at you when you did something stupid. Get over it!! And have you ever thought, maybe it's also got something to do with all those times you ripped on friends of mine because of their weight or clothes, and acted embarrassed to be in our sorority. DZ DIDN'T GIVE YOU A BID, DEAL WITH IT!!! If you want out, send your termination papers to nationals. I want to be your friend but I will not put up with that crap anymore.

To Catalina on Guiding Light: You are a two faced backstabbing WHORE!! (wait, I've already said that, to the TV anyway)

**Whew, I feel better now.**

HeavenslilAngel · #41 12-26-2001, 10:07 PM

I would like to apologize for my comments about my family. I have just been stressed and me and my mother don't get along well unforunately. I hope anyone who was offended, etc by the post will forgive and forget. It has since been deleted.

DGPhoney · #42 12-26-2001, 11:33 PM

Things I have to say:

First Off: Some people on this board , really kill me. The fact that some people feel as though it's ok for them to gripe about their little petty problems but then when others drop their two cents in on whats going on, some people jump all over them , telling them to grow up or think they know everything about the situation. Unless you are in that persons shoes or are in the situation calling them immature, childish or anything else for that matter doen't help in the least bit. I think when they post it's for wait might it be a reason , possibly for advice! oh oh , but wait, thats just my two cents

My Job : Ya'll can kiss my A$$ not only did you all have me working on Christmas Eve, but the day after Christmas too, I work over 60 hours for you peopleand go to school full time. and yet, I don't even get a thankyou for the days that I am not schduled to work but work , cause you all asked me, and then get one of the lowest salaries in the entire museum, and ya think I don't know it, hah, this sister knows it, and little do you know I got a new job on the DL paying triple, so holla back, oh and heres my two weeks

To I (My date for the formal) Boy boy, boy, don't ever , ever evvvvvvver, take me anywhere evvver again. I know you can dance cause we both are in the dance company, but baby boy you are not justin Timberlake, love ya dearly, but Nsync is not hiring!!!! Secondly, the other deed you did at the formal was not cool in the least bit, but i am gonna let you slide on that one, since we are "supposed " to be friends. Lastly, I am not sure where you got your license from, but doing 100 on 83, is crazzzy. I thought we were going to crash not once but twice, and thats why I pulled out my cell phone, cause I thought I was going to have to call my love ones.
We are still cool though, I just couldn't speak to you a day or two after all that which is why I was pretty silent the day after and after. Nothing but love for ya baby boy.

DGP-Honey~

juniorgrrl · #43 12-27-2001, 12:45 AM

To my best friend from HS: I know that we've grown apart in many ways, and I know you got very busy in college, but it didn't give you the right to all but ignore me. Everyone is busy, but it takes 2 seconds to reply to an email that says "I haven't heard from you in a month, are you okay?"

To my boyfriend's mom: You are TOO thin. You just don't look healthy. And why do I get the feeling that when you told your daughter-in-law "you won't be the fattest one there?" when referring to a family gathering requiring a swimsuit that you meant I would be the fattest one?

SuperSister · #44 12-27-2001, 01:08 AM

to some of my sisters who won't accept responsibilities that they already have . . . and then they don't understand why we won't give them more responsiblity!

to my best friend: i love you dearly and no matter how long we go without talking we will always be best friends because we have a special bond. however, i am only home about 5 months out of the year. your boyfriend is here ALL THE TIME. it is NOT cool how you can only see me once the entire month that i am home because you spend ever free evening with the bf. also: you have a pager and a cell phone, try returning a phone call just to say hi once in awhile.

ZTAngel · #45 12-27-2001, 01:34 AM

Here's a random story. It takes place almost 15 years ago. I haven't really told anyone about this so here it goes:
In second grade, there was this girl in my class who I will call "Kate". Now, this girl's first and last name rhymed. You can imagine the fun the little 7-year-olds had with that one. She got picked on a lot but it was well deserved. She was very mean to the other little kids. I will never forget when my friend, Caitlin, was on one of the swings and Kate came over and knocked her off of it. Kate was a lot bigger than most of the other kids too. They took us into the nurse's office one day to measure our weight and height. Most of us were about 50 pounds. Kate was already at 115 pounds at seven years old! Kids made jokes about that. Of course, now that I am older, I realize how cruel that is to do to someone.
Anyways, after a game of dodgeball during PE, the class was waiting in line for the water fountain. Kate was in front of me. She stepped out of line for a minute to go talk to her cousin who happened to walk by. She tried to get back in line in front of me. I just wouldn't allow it. I was what you could a snotty little kid. My mother says that I was very "demanding" when I was little. I guess that's my loving mom's term for "bratty". So, I told Kate that she could not go back in line. Kate through a fit. I said to her in my snottiest voice, "Ms.Jacobs said that once you step out of line you can't go back in. So I won't let you back in!" Kate then did something I never expected. She decked me! I hit the ground. 115 pounds vs. 50 pounds In a high school wrestling match, this wouldn't be fair! She started pounding on me and clawing at me. The safety patrols in the dorky orange vests had to come and break it up. I thought they were gods since they were big and bad 5th graders. One was holding Kate back and the other helped me up. One of the patrols asked me, "Are you cool?" Yeah, I was fine. Kate was still trying to struggle away from the safety patrol's grasp. He had her arms pinned. I did the most cowardly thing ever. I attacked someone when they had their hands tied behind their back. "TAKE THAT!!!!!!!" I screamed. I DECKED HER RIGHT IN THE NOSE! Blood was everywhere. I was in shock.
Half hour later, I wound up in the principal's office. The principal asked us the dumbest question you could ever ask a little kid. "Who started it?" Of course, me and Kate both pointed to each other.
I wasn't so much scared of the principal. I really crumbled when my mother came to pick me up. The look on her face....she could've turned Hell into ice.
I got suspended for one day and Kate for 7 days. And I some scars on my elbows. I did receive a round of applause from my class when I returned the day after my suspension. I was actually really embarrassed that I got an applause for fighting with someone. I was prissy...I wasn't supposed to fight. But, years later, I must say that I WISH I HAD THROWN IN A SECOND PUNCH!!!!!