Soul-Mates

[Her Dopenezzz]

I believe that soulmates exist. However, I think that there is only one out there for each one of us. We may or may not meet them and if we meet them and lose them, there's no one else that can be your true soulmate. You may love someone else after that but the love will never equal what you and your soulmate had. No matter what you do and how hard you try. If you never meet your soulmate, then you never experience TRUE love. Sad, but I think True.

[RHOyal-Silence]

ms dopenezzz,
i like your view (even though it is a little sad)

sometimes i feel that i missed out on my soul mate
but who knows, i am still young

[GoldenGlow2000]

I believe that everyone has more than one soul mate. I think there is one for every phase of your life. You learn something from the first to take to the next.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally posted by GoldenGlow2000
I believe that everyone has more than one soul mate. I think there is one for every phase of your life. You learn something from the first to take to the next.

I totally agree with this.

[BlueReign]

I read a lot on this subject and I read and reference Sylvia Browne. I don't think that there is such a thing as a soul-mate to complete you in this lifetime as in marriage. I believe that your soul-mate is your identical twin in spirit and not someone you would even be romantically interested in, especially since opposites usually attract.

[ZetaStorm]

Actually I think that God has a person for each one of us. My soul mate and I have been going back and forth for years now. We have both gone through different phases in our lives. (From our teens into adulthood.) Through the years somehow our paths continue to cross in the craziest places and the strangest ways. When I hear his voice on the phone I melt inside. When I receive an email from him I melt. He has always understood me. I always accepted him for who he is and vice versa. I see so much of myself in him and it has always been that way.

Now we are in different states and yet somehow I know when something isn't going right for him. I can't explain it so I stopped trying. Twice I almost got married to other people. I don't regret not marrying my fiances. It's funny how I can see now what I could not see then. It wouldn't have lasted because my heart wasn't in it.

I also see how the time wasn't quite right for me and my soul mate either. We are more mature now. We have finished our education, etc. Sometimes it takes some knocks and bruises for you to appreciate when someone really loves you.

[Little32]

I think I have found one of mine. Before I found him, I was not sure about the concept. Now, I know that they exist, though I hope that we have more than one, because I am not sure how things are going to work out with this one.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by RHOyal-Silence

i was just listening to bilal's soul sista when i started thinking....

do you all believe that there is a person out there that is your soul mate? Yeah but that doesn't mean everyone meets their soulmate or spends their life with that person. I also believe that there are soulmateS--more than one.
do you have someone in your life that you believe that you are meant to be with even though circumstances right now have you apart from one another? No. But I used to believe that because I was living in a romanticized la-la-land in which I refused to close certain doors.

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[Zita22]

Hey guys have any of you tried that soulmate calculator? that advertised everywhere? i think the url is http://www.soulmatecalculator.com i tried it the other day but i think it's not very accurate. I got some name like Donny. lol.

[cecarter82]

I'm scared....it said my soulmate is named Brooke iono no dudes named brooke...

[PrettyBoy]

I'm not sure. I thought my ex was my soul mate, but I guess she wasn't. I don't even know if I know what a soul mate is anymore. I guess now for me it's like whatever happens, happens.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by cecarter82

I'm scared....it said my soulmate is named Brooke iono no dudes named brooke...

LMAO!!!!!!!! Maybe his last name will be brooke

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by RHOyal-Silence

i was just listening to bilal's soul sista when do you have someone in your life that you believe that you are meant to be with even though circumstances right now have you apart from one another?

I think that the little experience that I have had with relationships (I'm 22) does not qualify me to answer this question as best as others. Yet, there is someone whom we are apart right now, but I don't want to say he is my soul mate, but I don't know what to say...

I think DSTCHAOS said it best when she mentioned the la-la land and refusing to close certain doors...that is where I am now. I try to look at the situation with a more mature view and look further down the road as to weigh the options.

Soulmates do exist to me, but I think that people get complacent (either in current relationship or don't want to pursue) and miss theirs. This makes me think of Charlot (sp?) from Sex and the City.

[ladygreek]

I found my soul mate 8 months ago. We live 1,000 miles apart, but we were high school sweethearts. We reunited at our class reunion and hadn't seen each other in 20 years. We communicate by phone and email. He makes my soul feel good and I his. It's not about sex, it's about knowing how to uplift each other.

Otherwise he lives his life and I live mine, but we are joined by our mutual like, love and respect for each other. That's all we need from each other.

[NinjaPoodle]

ttt. worth bringing back up.