Respect - Page 2

DSTCHAOS · #16 06-01-2005, 10:21 AM

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Originally posted by BrownBeauty
Well, the reason this question came up is because one of my Prophytes was disrespected verbally by a younger member of our chapter. My prophyte is years older than her in Delta and I don't feel that she (younger member) was acting in line with how a family should act. I would never disrespect any of my Prophytes. (That is what I was taught). Especially not for all to know as this particular member did. How do you respond to this member?

Due to the sensitive nature of this issue, I don't want to go into too much detail but feel free to email me on this if you have any questions that should not be asked publicly.

This is all very vague.

Again, it depends on what the issue is and what is meant by disrespect.

BrownBeauty · #17 06-01-2005, 11:00 AM

I am not at liberty to reveal who I am at this time. I came across this site and thought I could ask a question while remaining anonymous. I assure you I am a Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. (3+ years strong) and at the risk of exposing my chapter and its members, I will remove myself from this discussion. I do believe that the answer that crimsontide4 supplied me will have to be sufficient. Thank you to all the Sorors that took the time to see my need and answer on this post. As all chapters have drama, I would prefer not to have my chapter at the forefront of this discussion as we are going through a lot of changes at this time because of the “RESPECT” issue.

Sisterly,
Brown Beauty

smlwonderdst · #18 06-01-2005, 11:09 AM

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Originally posted by BrownBeauty
I am not at liberty to reveal who I am at this time. I came across this site and thought I could ask a question while remaining anonymous. I assure you I am a Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. (3+ years strong) and at the risk of exposing my chapter and its members, I will remove myself from this discussion. I do believe that the answer that crimsontide4 supplied me will have to be sufficient. Thank you to all the Sorors that took the time to see my need and answer on this post. As all chapters have drama, I would prefer not to have my chapter at the forefront of this discussion as we are going through a lot of changes at this time because of the “RESPECT” issue.

Sisterly,
Brown Beauty

How do you put your chapter at risk just by introducing yourself to sorors and saying hello?

treblk · #19 06-01-2005, 11:10 AM

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Originally posted by BrownBeauty
I am not at liberty to reveal who I am at this time. I came across this site and thought I could ask a question while remaining anonymous. I assure you I am a Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. (3+ years strong) and at the risk of exposing my chapter and its members, I will remove myself from this discussion. I do believe that the answer that crimsontide4 supplied me will have to be sufficient. Thank you to all the Sorors that took the time to see my need and answer on this post. As all chapters have drama, I would prefer not to have my chapter at the forefront of this discussion as we are going through a lot of changes at this time because of the “RESPECT” issue.

Sisterly,
Brown Beauty

you know..never mind...

..it's not even worth it

ladygreek · #20 06-01-2005, 11:10 AM

But you chose the answer you wanted to hear. And I don't see this scenario as what CT4 was referring to, beause this sounds like it sould have been some catty female mess, not a Delta issue.

smlwonderdst · #21 06-01-2005, 11:11 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
But you chose the answer you wanted to hear. And I don't see this scenario as what CT4 was referring to, beause this sounds like it sould have been some catty female mess, not a Delta issue.

Exactly!

ladygreek · #22 06-01-2005, 11:15 AM

Also, I can't tell if this is a collegiate chapter or an alumnae chapter. If it is collegiate than why are all you alums still up in their business?

treblk · #23 06-01-2005, 11:19 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Also, I can't tell if this is a collegiate chapter or an alumnae chapter. If it is collegiate than why are all you alums still up in their business?

Soror Ladygreek, this topic is not worth discussing. I just don't get it. I didn't think this topic was about Delta until she mentioned it, I thought it was about her friends.

How does one come across a MB site and post a question expecting answers, but when asked who she is, doesn't want to say

She only took what she wanted to hear *shrug* I guess..Keep it moving

ladygreek · #24 06-01-2005, 11:21 AM

I hear ya!

CrimsonTide4 · #25 06-01-2005, 11:21 AM

hmmmmmmmmmmm

I would think that something like this could have been handled without even posting on GC.

But welcome to GC.

P.S. I guess she liked my answer the best! YAAAAAAAAAAY ME!! I rock!!!!!

DSTCHAOS · #26 06-01-2005, 11:25 AM

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Originally posted by BrownBeauty
all chapters have drama

It looks like you answered your own question right here.

DSTCHAOS · #27 06-01-2005, 11:26 AM

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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
I would think that something like this could have been handled without even posting on GC.

The Truth · #28 06-01-2005, 12:53 PM

TeeHee!

Y'all are funny, I missed GC.

MightyQuinn · #29 06-02-2005, 04:53 PM

I think what she meant to say was she didn't want to put her chapters business out there, rather then saying she didn't want to put her chapter at risk. I could be wrong but I guess she figured that once she posted her info we would naturally connect the drama to her chapter which would be her putting her chapters business on front street. Just a thought.

treblk · #30 06-02-2005, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by MightyQuinn
I think what she meant to say was she didn't want to put her chapters business out there, rather then saying she didn't want to put her chapter at risk. I could be wrong but I guess she figured that once she posted her info we would naturally connect the drama to her chapter which would be her putting her chapters business on front street. Just a thought.

We understood that point, however, the point we didn't get is that she could have solved this problem or gotten information by other means then posting it here.