5 Things I would change... they would all be from the first two years of college:
1. Not be such a nasty girl with a nasty attitude when my family dropped me off at school in the fall. I was literally like, "Ok bye. See you later." the second they had helped me unload everything! (I get along great with my parents NOW, but it took me a long time to grow out of the nasty teenage girl treats her mother like dirt stage. Wish I would have grown out of it sooner.)
2. Not treat my high school boyfriend with whom I was attempting to have a long distance relationship quite so harshly when I finally broke up with him. (I would still have broken up with him, just done it in a nicer way.)
3. Not been so naive during rush. (It was still rush!) For one thing- I signed up at literally the last minute, and didn't do my homework before hand. Two specific events come to mind... I wouldn't have told a sister from XYZ- "Oh, you already cut my best friend and we're rushing together." Duh- I was cut from that house the next day. Or at ABC- arrive early to the party and STICK AROUND! The sisters were cleaning the chapter room and I was camped out on their couch. DUH! Cut from that sorority the next day too. Makes me wonder where I would have ended up- probably still ADPi.

4. Not rush into a relationship I had at the church camp where I was a counselor the summer after Freshman year. It just made the whole rest of the summer awkward because we still had to work together day after day even though the relationship didn't work out. There was a certain something I did that just scared that boy off! What if I hadn't done THAT?
5. Not have gotten back together with my college boyfriend after we had broken up the First time. Yes, I'm sorry to admit I broke up and got back together with the jerk on 3 separate occasions thoughout Sophmore, Jr and Sr. years. Think of all the boys I could have dated throughout my last two years of college if I hadn't gotten back together with him that first time spring of sophomore year!
So now- looking back on the relationships- if I hadn't of had them when I had them, obviously I wouldn't have met my husband when I did, fallen in love and be happily married now almost 3 years later. And if I hadn't been so blesedly naive during rush, I would have had a completely different sorority experience. I probably would not have been able to be an officer or gotten to know my sisters as well as I did as the other groups were all twice as large as ADPi was. Also who knows if I would have "felt" the ritual or taken the ideals of any other group to heart as much as I have with ADPi. Would I still be as involved with another sorority today as I am with ADPi?
So the moral of this post it that everything happens for a reason. Amen.
Now! On to the victim... err, I mean, next interview question!
What was, will be, or would you like to be your "wedding song"? Why did you pick that particular song? Is there something in the lyrics, or is it the melody, or was it played at a special time for you and your sweety pie?