Anything But That

[Dionysus]

Gold teefes and thug wear. Just imagine...I went through a phase in my early teens when I had no interest in a guy unless he looked like that.

[nikki1920]

Why am I ___^___^____ at " beady beads" and the square dancing teeth?

*lol*
(and I am 5 feet nothing, and every guy I've dated except one has been taller than me, like 5'10 to 6'3 or 4).

[DaddyzLilGrl]

Anything But That

What physical characteristic could you LEAST tolerate in a mate?


I have to chime in on the height factor. I am 6'0" and I love it when a man has to bend down to kiss me If I am not attracted to a man physically, I'm just not interested. Please note.... as my momma says, "Girl, don't get caught up in the grooming..... you can fix that later!"

[SKEEphistAKAte]

I can't deal with the short thing. I am short myself, so maybe I am a hypocrit (I'm 5'2). But I can't be with anyone less than 6', 200 lbs. Just a preference.

I also can't stand men who have that fat roll, or bumbs on the back of their head, close to the neck. That disgusts me.

[evaclear04]

Breath
We cant talk if everytime you open your mouth I want to gag.
Mens! Listen up! Brush your tongue, listerine, floss, carry mints...do what you have to do so that your breath doesn't smell like you have been eating poo poo!

[UpPinkies]

Cornrolls, bad teeth, thug wear, dirt under his finger nails, cologne (maybe this is because my father never, ever wore it, so I got use to a man smelling like soap), too short, must keep your hair cut, no ashy lips (this is my father's pet peeve. He buys chapstick like it going out of style), must comb your hair (a lot of men do not do this---->Fred from MTB), ashy rough feet (Lawd, I will personlly take you to Top Nails, Tip-Top Nails, Beautiful Nails, Lings Nails and have them go at your feet. You can also go to Walgreen and by a pumice stone and hit them boys up) and just all around ashy (lotion cost $1 at the dolla store so I will also hook you up there also)


I think thats it...
Let me check...


Yep, that it for now...

[Queencece]

With the height. Im tall myself (5'8) and I will not date a man under 5'10. I think its security and feeling protected. I like to look up to my man also. My SO is 6'3, so I have done well. LOL!

Q

[Queencece]

With the height. Im tall myself (5'8) and I will not date a man under 5'10. I think its security and feeling protected. I like to look up to my man also. My SO is 6'3, so I have done well as far as that goes. LOL!

Q

[1savvydiva]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
I can't deal with the short thing. I am short myself, so maybe I am a hypocrit (I'm 5'2). But I can't be with anyone less than 6', 200 lbs. Just a preference.

Yeah, I like a thicky-thick man too!

[SKEEphistAKAte]

Originally posted by 1savvydiva
Yeah, I like a thicky-thick man too!

Yes gurl! They can't just be tall and skinny. I need muscles. I'd choose NFL body over NBA body anyday. I just like REALLY masculine men. Tall, muscular, deep voice (that's a must), facial hair, confident- almost arrogant, ....I love those things in a man.

Co-sign 100% with Queencece. It is a protection thing. I just feel safe and protected with a tall, muscular guy. I love looking up to them too.

[1savvydiva]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
Yes gurl! They can't just be tall and skinny. I need muscles. I'd choose NFL body over NBA body anyday. I just like REALLY masculine men. Tall, muscular, deep voice (that's a must), facial hair, confident- almost arrogant, ....I love those things in a man.

Co-sign 100% with Queencece. It is a protection thing. I just feel safe and protected with a tall, muscular guy. I love looking up to them too.

Yep. something about some broad shoulders and big ol' arms...hmm that's a whole 'nother thread.

[Cali_Keisha]

Nappy chest hair, shorter then me, jacked up teeth, body odor, i'm sure there's more, let me sit and think...

[Neosoulchild]

Originally posted by Love_Spell_6
A HAIRY chest...u know the kind with the beady beads..the one's that pop back when u pull on them UGH!!

I will have to co-sign on that one, too. I was in love with Morris Chestnut until I saw all his taco meat on The Brothers. It was sickening; now everytime I see him I picture his chest.

[Rain Man]

....with my 5' 5", 170 lb. self.
(BTW, I used to be 6 ft. tall until....well, let's just say I won't allow women to perform any more uh, oral skills on me).

As far as bad breath, well I was clowned royally in high school for presumably having tart breath (I didn't; girls were just trying to humiliate me by chanting "Stinky breath, stinky breath"). Then I put them on full blast by replying, "If you would take time to douche, then da[rn]it, my breath wouldn't stink." Needless to say, I got no more "complaints" on my breath after that.

Anyway, to answer the question, I cannot stand women with hair color inconsistent with their complexion (red, blue, blonde on a dark skinned woman--looking like a photo negative).

By the same token, no hoochie/hoodrat type of women, either. I dated one off and on from high school up until 4 years ago and she was a pain in the BUTT! I like the old school 80's type of woman--the ones who dress like a preppie princess.

[Honeykiss1974]

Originally posted by Rain Man
....with my 5' 5", 170 lb. self.
(BTW, I used to be 6 ft. tall until....well, let's just say I won't allow women to perform any more uh, oral skills on me).

As far as bad breath, well I was clowned royally in high school for presumably having tart breath (I didn't; girls were just trying to humiliate me by chanting "Stinky breath, stinky breath"). Then I put them on full blast by replying, "If you would take time to douche, then da[rn]it, my breath wouldn't stink." Needless to say, I got no more "complaints" on my breath after that.

TMI! TMI!