Strange Qualities that Attract You - Page 2

chideltjen · #1 04-15-2003, 04:59 PM

just about ALL of my exes and the other guys I date for a bit have been part of Boy Scouts of America. They were either still actively involved or quit when they were 12. Somehow they all dated me.

sarahgrace · #2 04-15-2003, 05:03 PM

Mmm...reading this thread I've agreed with a lot of things, and concluded that my ideal guy would be a left-handed, slightly nerdy drummer. Yeah.

Sarah

annice22 · #3 04-15-2003, 05:04 PM

As for looks, I normally go for tall guys with dark brown hair (the hair has to have a little spike to it) and are really good looking (hence my next sentence). As for personality the guys are always jerks, because they know that they look good, plus they're players. I have yet to be attractive to a nice guy just the good looking jerks.

FiReKraCkEr · #4 04-15-2003, 05:05 PM

*Guitar players, every last one of my exes are avid guitar players

*Deep Blue Eyes, long dark lashes

*I like the quiet, silent types cause I can do all the talking for both of us

*I LOVE intensity and sensitivity

*I like guys who are a little rough around the edges, you know the type. Wears Abercromie and Northface, but also wear Birks and holy knee length shorts. I like the outdoorsy type who likes camping and hiking.

*I like kayakers and swimmers.

*I love baby faces.

*I sometimes like disheveled hair...depends

AlphaGamDiva · #5 04-15-2003, 06:57 PM

like to add teddy bear types...i like to feel small and protected, so i tend to go for them, too, moreso than those pretty boys. big funny boys are the best............

OUlioness01 · #6 04-15-2003, 06:58 PM

for some reason all the guys i date are slightly dorky guys with long eyelashes. they aren't scrawny, but they aren't built either (and i love them like that!). i also need a guy who will laugh at and argue with me....i know it's kinda weird. It's funny because that's the exact opposite of the type of guys i hang out with at parties.

AngelPhiSig · #7 04-16-2003, 02:17 AM

gay men
jewish men
gay jewish men
lol...

tenors
drummers
dorks
idiots
people who yell at me (Im told Im asking for an abusive relationship...)

my biggest turn on?
Arrogance.

AlphaGamDiva · #8 04-16-2003, 02:35 AM

oh yeah...feelin the gay thing. i mean, when you're a theatre major for 3 years...-sigh-
anyone else been the gay man's last stand?? (not sex here, ppl, nooo....just some kissin'....still frustrating, though)

SATX*APhi · #9 04-16-2003, 03:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ADPi~Ally
I like the dorky guys too, not ur typical hot guy, but cute in their own right. They r usually funny, and sweet too.

Yes ma'am.

I like 'em!!

xok85xo · #10 04-16-2003, 06:50 AM

i LOVE tattoos..my ex was covered in them..yum

Dionysus · #11 04-16-2003, 10:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AngelPhiSig

idiots
people who yell at me (Im told Im asking for an abusive relationship...)

my biggest turn on?
Arrogance.

I hope thats an attempt at being funny, hope you're not serious.

prospectiverushee · #12 04-16-2003, 11:04 AM

I seem to crush on straving artist types. My 4 latest crushes are all guys that want to do something in the entertainment field.

Boy#1 wrote a screenplay and wants to be an actor

Boy#2 use to be a model and wants to be an actor

Boy#3 wants to direct moves and even went to film school for awhile

Boy#4 wants to write,produce,and direct

librasoul22 · #13 04-16-2003, 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
oh yeah...feelin the gay thing. i mean, when you're a theatre major for 3 years...-sigh-
anyone else been the gay man's last stand?? (not sex here, ppl, nooo....just some kissin'....still frustrating, though)

Well for some reason that I have yet to figure out, gay men hit on me all the time. Gay men in denial, gay men who are out but discreet, flaming gay men, drag queens, I have had it all. I go to gay clubs with my roomie and I used to think they were just trying to get to him, but I don't think so anymore. I think some gay guys are just straight-curious? I dunno.

AXJules · #14 04-16-2003, 01:14 PM

Every guy I've had anything with has always asked me to watch "For Love of the Game" with them. I have no idea why...but whenever I really start to like someone and they ask me that, it seals the deal.
Not like this is something that attracts me to them, especially considering I'm not a Kevin Costner fan, but just something weird that I noticed.

FAB*SpiceySpice · #15 04-16-2003, 11:23 PM

Another thing I remembered, arrogance really turns me on too. That's horrible I know, but it just does something for me. Also a guy who is aggressive, not abusive, just aggressive. And he has to be over 6', I've never been attracted to a guy that's been shorter than 6'. My dream guy would be 6'4", green eyes, dark spiky hair, nice rough hands, and a slightly cocky attitude. Yum.