confused about guys??

[AOIIBrandi]

Shawndalynn, I'm a little concerned with the part where you said you "disrespected his wishes" It's one thing if you hooked up with another guy and the complete opposite if say you went to a party with a GF and he didn't want you to go...You're in college that's what you're supposed to be doind...in moderation of course

I believe UFPike has it completely right here. Especially after the line I mentioned above.

Twinstars and JAM I also like the things you had to say. Definitely a nicer way than I would have used to tell the guy to bug off

[Shawndalynn]

Well here is an update if any of you are wondering.. Last Tuesday and I hadn't talked to him since Thursday night which I just told him politely on the phone that it was to late to call and that I had class at 8 in the morning.. Well then he calls on Tuesday and said that he had been in jail for the past three days.. It was really something stupid he never took care of a ticket he had gotten. Anyways when he called I was obviously skeptical of the reason for the call but we talked for a long time on the phone and he told me that he cared about me and that he didn't know why he kept pushing me away- because he hasn't been with anyone for a long time so he is scared. And this guy never talks about the way he feels like I said before when I wanted to talk he would say he didn't. So basiclly he wanted to try again.. Well of course I had no idea what to say I was in a state of shock literally.. But I told him that this time what he says and what he does are going to have to be the same. I told him I want to believe you but I am going to have to see that you are trying if you are being serious about this.. So since then he has been doing really good. He has been calling everyday since then even a couple times. I think sitting in jail for three days brought him back to reality.. I am still skeptical and real aware of what is going on so we don't repeat whats already happend and now just see what is going to happen..
Sorry it is so long
Shawnda