How many people have you kissed? - Page 2

phisigsigchic · #16 08-27-2002, 11:46 AM

Ok my first kiss was when I was 7 (trust me I hated it and pushed him out of my way!). Don't think that counts though. So from 13 on (which makes it about 7 years). I have kissed 13 guys! I used to think that was a lot especially since more than half of them fall between the summer I graduated high school (and turned 18) and December of my freshman year (that month I got together with my boyfriend who I have been with ever since). But that seems to be the pattern for a lot of people.

KarenC725 · #17 08-27-2002, 12:01 PM

A number that drives my boy crazy: in 12 years, 43 boys...

dzsaigirl · #18 08-27-2002, 02:38 PM

I have only kissed 8 guys ever. 4 were boyfriends (one of which I married this summer!) and 4 were just friends. But I never kissed anyone I did not know well.

If you knew me though, you would not be surprised. People make fun of me for being a prude!

Hootie · #19 08-27-2002, 06:17 PM

I don't think a lower number is coorilated to being a prude. I just happen to find myself in situations where I'm not going to just KISS a guy on the first date or at random parties. There is nothing with either of those situations either, but 8 times out of 10, a guy will probably think you're being too forward. Now heck, if I were friends with a lot of guys and just kissed them to be funny or whatever that's different.
I don't think number determines prudeness nor willingness to do whatever.
I just think it's a persons personality.

Hootie

SSS1365 · #20 08-27-2002, 08:47 PM

In 7 years (because my first kiss was when I was 14) I have only kissed 6 guys! But this is largely because since then I haven't gone more than 3 months without a boyfriend and I've only ever had 3 boyfriends. Most of these guys were in my freshman year of college. I'm kind of ashamed of 3 of them (the 3 that I never dated).

valkyrie · #21 08-27-2002, 08:59 PM

I'm amazed that so many of you know the exact number! I have no idea how many I've kissed, but by guessing I could put it somewhere in the 60s. Maybe more???

I don't see the point of assigning labels based upon the number of people one has kissed. Whatever number you have is just a number, and nobody's number is better or worse than anybody else's -- yours is what it is.

To take up a line that KappaKittyCat started, I wonder how many of us here have kissed people of our own gender?

Hootie · #22 08-27-2002, 10:36 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie

To take up a line that KappaKittyCat started, I wonder how many of us here have kissed people of our own gender?

On a Truth or Dare I lip-kissed my best friend but it was like...mwua and nothing more than a milisecond. BLAH! Other than my mommy's lips (and that was when I was younger), I don't go around kissing girls LOL!

Hootie

UF_PikePC98 · #23 08-28-2002, 11:53 PM

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Originally posted by dzsaigirl
I never kissed anyone I did not know well.

You mean to tell me that most of you have not been out in a club and had some cute guy come up to you while you were "freshman" drunk and shove his tongue in your mouth, while the two of you danced on the dance floor?

It would be very hard to sit down and think of the number of times I had those "lets go to your place now" kisses with some girl I didn't even know more than an hour. It's happened alot, most of the time I didn't remember and only found out either by pictures my boys took or from their stories......Whats really bad is when you get this message from some girl that sounds hot on your cell and you call her back and talk but then see her out that night and you don't reckonize her......She normally gets pissed and walks away, which is normally followed by you asking your boy " Who was that?".......he then informs you it was the chick from the night before.....

I guess things are done differently outside of florida......I guess people really are still country and have that southern mentality....

I can't believe that most fo you actually know the number of peopel you've kissed.....

MOST girls I know at UF don't bother to try and think of that......I think their glad they actually know the number of guys they've slept with.......

Most of MY friends have a hard time remembering the # of chicks they've banged, if they can at all.........That might be part of the reason why Florida has such a high HIV rate.

I'm not black but I do know that 1 in 5 black people in florida are HIV positive.

pbpck · #24 08-29-2002, 01:45 PM

I think most girls can remember the number of guys they have kissed, because girls tend to be more prudent in their choices. Not only do they not want to be labeled for their risque actions, but they want to respect themselves.

I have never ever had a drunk hook up... the one night, momentary kiss on the dance floor or back seat of the car. I have been beligerantly drunk before, I may say things that I don't remember, but a kiss is a sensation that stands out in one's mind. No matter how drunk I am, I don't want to regret things in the morning. I avoid chapter ridicule and save myself some dignity. Now it's different if a girl has the intention of a certain interaction with a specified person planned beforehand.

UF Pike...

The free love concept was a novelty in the 60's, but as you pointed out the high AIDS rate in Florida, it was also the era in which a deadly virus emerged. Why put yourself at risk like that? If not to save your character, to save your life?

Sorry if I sound like a mother, but truly...it's a shame to see young adults behving so irrationally and risking so much for fleeting hedonism.

33girl · #25 08-29-2002, 02:07 PM

keep in mind my advanced age...I've kissed about 70. Free love came late to northwestern PA, my children.

oh, and one of my female friends felt the need to give me a smooch one night last summer when she was quite schnockered...thankfully it was BEFORE she barfed over the side of the boat.

madmax · #26 08-29-2002, 02:14 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie

To take up a line that KappaKittyCat started, I wonder how many of us here have kissed people of our own gender?

80-100 women.

0 men.

nucutiepie · #27 08-29-2002, 02:25 PM

29 guys

1 girl (a dare during a drinking game in which i really couldn't afford to drink any more!)

(i would like to add that 95 percent of these were kisses only and nothing more!)

UF_PikePC98 · #28 08-29-2002, 02:40 PM

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Originally posted by pbpck

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UF Pike...

The free love concept was a novelty in the 60's, but as you pointed out the high AIDS rate in Florida, it was also the era in which a deadly virus emerged. Why put yourself at risk like that? If not to save your character, to save your life?

Sorry if I sound like a mother, but truly...it's a shame to see young adults behving so irrationally and risking so much for fleeting hedonism.

Nahhh baby, thats not what I was implying......I'm not saying I'm into the free-love, no consequence thing.......

I'm VERY careful on what I do with what chick.......I mean there were a few where i had to double up because I was alittle skeptical with their forwardness to jump to the bedroom.....You might ask, if I was that worried about it then why did i do it?? Well, they were hot and didn't look like they had something but then again if their HOT and are not freshman in college, odds are they've been around the block a few times and probably had a couple of football players run through them.....This of course isn't the case if you meet the girl in her freshman year....in my eyes there's still a good chance their clean. Banging about 3-5 guys in highschool isn't that bad but after their freshman and sophmore years at college, it's a safe bet the number has increased a sizeable amount.........I must have gods favour because there was this one chick who was a gymnast for UF about 3 years ago....she was hot.....one night while at Fat tuesdays we got wasted together.......I kinda noticed she was alittle too eager to go back to my place......at the time I didn't think anything about it and kept drinking, to the point where i was disfunctional on ALL levels.....I think god made me drink more because about 2 months after that many of the guys on the UF football team caught herpes......I later found out that after they all spoke with each other it was that chick they all banged.....she was the girl whos name kept coming up when the coaches were asking who they've all been banging.........

There's nothing more dangerous in a college town than a HOT blonde chick who has gone crazy because she caught an std from someone and then goes around purposely giving it to all the guys who are known for hooking up with alot of girls......On a more recent not there is a girl in gainesville right now who broke up with her boyfriend and started dating a drug dealer in the town. She was with him for awhile ( I know both these people) and she had sex with him for coke all the time.......Now this girl is actually VERY attractive......well the two broke up like all drug based relationships do and she went back to her previous boyfriend....now he knew the guy she left him for and told her he wouldn't take her back unless she got an HIV test.......well she did and came back positive.......Well the girl has since gone ape $hit and is going around having sex with guys and purposely giving them HIV......No one knows her last name and the police have been notified.......No one knows if she is in school or not but she IS in G-ville.......

So yes, I do know the risks are out there.....but I'm being wise.....thats why I don't bang coke whores........

KappaKittyCat · #29 08-29-2002, 03:06 PM

Single-person pronouns are used in the intrest of grammatical correctness only and do not indicate any specific gender.

The thought of anyone's purposely giving an STD to someone is horrifying. In certain states, intentionally infecting others with HIV can result in a charge of manslaughter or reckless endangerment at the very least.

Sex is still fun and I'm not denying that, but in this day & age it is also very risky. What someone does with his own body is his own concern, but he has no business endangering anyone else in the process. If he is infected, it is his responsibility to tell his partner and allow that partner to make an informed decision about whether to pursue sexual contact.

I dearly hope that anyone who chooses to participate in casual sex is careful and does not judge merely on appearance, age, or reputation whether a potential partner is or is not clean. I hope that she is tested regularly herself, not just for HIV but for all STDs, and that she is using condoms as well as protection that is solely contraceptive in nature, like the Pill.

That said, studies have shown that women have more acute and detailed emotional memories. The majority of women also place more emphasis on the emotional aspects of sexual contact. Therefore, barring the interference of mind-altering substances, women are more likely to remember whom they've kissed.

amycat412 · #30 08-29-2002, 03:17 PM

I could not even venture a guess as to how many men I've kissed.

Geez--was 26 I think on my 30th birthday alone.

http://130.94.21.174/gcforums/showth...=30th+birthday But I still went home with my "honor" in tact, was just a fun night and a fun dare.