Conclusion- "women are dumb"....

[Taualumna]

Then I realized....an overwhelming MAJORITY of women I've met are..in no particular order...
indecisive, overemotional, illogical, in condensed terms...

We think many guys are like that too....minus the overemotional part.

[shinerbock]

"How do you write women so well?"

"I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability."

[KSigkid]

I remember the original poster made a lot of really bizarre posts and then left GC altogether. I also remember I dropped a comment on him at some point which resulted in a nasty PM from him.

[SAEalumnus]

I'm not quite sure what to say to that other than DAMN! Just make sure you have somewhere you can duck and cover from all of the replies from women you're gonna get!

[h2oot]

KSigRC said: Don't roll the guy like this - you can't play both sides. You deny the antecedent, then pop off something completely analogous and assert it as true - and then you wonder why he's frustrated? I'm not particularly sympathetic to this sort of editorialization on your part.

I presumed much of his characterization was taunting in jest, so my reply at that level was simply a toss-back and was appropriate. Am sorry you missed the point. Next time I'll footnote it for you.

KSigRC also says: Now, whether or not this is a valid generalization on his part is another argument - but it's subjective, and so perception quickly becomes reality, right?

Yep, it may be his reality, but since he's seeking opinions, I presume he wants to change that perception...ergo, my reply.

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Originally posted by KarenC725


Well said. I think that there are just as many "dumb boys" as there are "dumb girls". Now if we could just find a way to make sure they found each other and left the rest alone...

AMEN to that!

Actually I gotta put it like this and say I agree with Iowa and PKTSU and Karen too.

I think the immaturity thing comes from these women trying to act MORE mature then they actually are (I have friends like this . When you try to be something you arent we all know you just end up looking STUPID

This chick takes no offense, cuz sometimes as my mama put it....truth hurts. And he did say a majority, not all.

[tridelta4ever]

Originally posted by SAEactive
I'm not quite sure what to say to that other than DAMN! Just make sure you have somewhere you can duck and cover from all of the replies from women you're gonna get!

It's no coincidence that my husband to be is also an SAE, a TRUE GENTLEMAN.

[aggieAXO]

Originally posted by h2oot


With regard to meeting only girls who are indecisive, overemotional, and illogical--have you tried meeting girls who are out of high school, that may help.

ha ha ha ha that is toooooo fuuuuunnnnyyyy-LMAO ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

[KSig RC]

Originally posted by h2oot
I presumed much of his characterization was taunting in jest, so my reply at that level was simply a toss-back and was appropriate. Am sorry you missed the point. Next time I'll footnote it for you.

haha - Thanks, I'd appreciate that, I'm apparently not a very clever boy. Some annotation would be fantastic, ace.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by PKTSU01

Got your attention? Good...

This thought has been reoccuring for weeks now, more so in the past week where....I've had a girl I know become pregnant by a guy who "loves" her, although he seems to forget where she now lives...and...had a fraternity brother cheated on by his g/f twice in the last 3 months, and just found out about both. He's the nicest guy anyone will ever meet, and got completeley fucked with emotionally and mentally, he's a damn wreck.

We've all discussed this on this site before, to some extent. Normally, when ladies make no sense to us gentlemen, the ladies of GC clarify answer our inquiry of "why are girls so stupid sometimes?" with "oh, she just has bad judgment" or" she's not worth the effort." I tried to give it all the benefit of the doubt, assuming that it was just bad luck that my buds have been running across these "poor judgment" girls. Then I realized....an overwhelming MAJORITY of women I've met are..in no particular order...
indecisive, overemotional, illogical, in condensed terms...

totally free of rational thought, especially when it invloves admitting to themselves that they actually a) love someone or b) have someone that loves them. Love seems to be what women search for, the whole knight in shining armor deal. Then, when he comes along, he's not asshole enough to spark her interest. No thrill of the hunt, no challenge, she's not interested. Leaving the nice guy alone wondering where he went wrong.

The overall question here is this, posed by a comment my friend Kirsten made "If a guy wants a girl, he has to be a dick, make it seem like he doesn't care, THEN he has to be nice, cause that's what a girl really wants."

Is this the extent of it ladies? No point in being nice till after we've acted out and played the little game of hard to get?

Now, I've seen this, played this game, gotten the girl before, but when I sit and actually think about it, and if this is the truth, there is absolutley VERY LITTLE reason to try and be a gentleman, seeing as the majority of women will ignore that and think you a loser for being nice. Does that make ANY sense?

For some reason, as discussed in a previous post, this mindframe seems to dissapate after a woman nears or hits 30. So, is that it? Don't try to make sense of a woman who won't make sense until she's 30?

Of course, these generalizations don't speak for everyone but, it seems to be way more than just coincidental.

Again, I'll clarify, NOT all women, there are some sweeties out there, not all hope is lost, but quite a few, especially in the age range of 20-25,26. I know it might be just a maturity issue, but, it would be interesting to hear different takes on this.

Man, this thread is an oldie but a goodie. I'm bumpin' it. I agree with all of the above. I couldn't have said it any better. Back in the day I was blind to all of this, but if she's stupid and immature, I can see it coming a mile away. I just look for old fashioned values. It was unheard of 5 to 6 generations ago that women wanted to be with a dick. They wanted a gentleman back then. I agree with you. Now, today a woman wants an idiot, who doesn't care anything about her. The crazy thing about it is she says, "Oh, I think I can change him." Please. Ya gotta let a dick be a dick. Point blank.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Now, today a woman wants an idiot, who doesn't care anything about her.

Do I really?


I want someone who will treat me right and stay faithful--that's the type of girlfriend that I am and I expect it back. But, in college, that's almost too much to ask--what is a college student, but a high school student a year or two removed? Maybe I'll find a healthier, more mature relationship in grad school, but on the same token, what is a graduate student but a college student plus a few months (at least that's true in my case)? I say age does not equal maturity, experience does. With age comes experience, but it's not the whole sha-bang.

[CutiePie2000]

I just wanted to point out that this thread originated in 2002, lay dormant for a while and has now been recently bumped.

KTHXBYE.

[James]

Experience does not bring maturity. Thats a myth. And a dangerous one.

Originally Posted by christiangirl

Do I really?


I want someone who will treat me right and stay faithful--that's the type of girlfriend that I am and I expect it back. But, in college, that's almost too much to ask--what is a college student, but a high school student a year or two removed? Maybe I'll find a healthier, more mature relationship in grad school, but on the same token, what is a graduate student but a college student plus a few months (at least that's true in my case)? I say age does not equal maturity, experience does. With age comes experience, but it's not the whole sha-bang.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by James

Experience does not bring maturity. Thats a myth. And a dangerous one.

church and tabernacle on that!