Sorority Termination

[Katmandu]

As a former alumna standards advisor, my advice is to reach out to your standards board and your alumnae who advise in that area. Ask for a face to face meeting. If there are extenuating circumstances or information they may not have access to, present your case. Do not lie, accept your responsibility, do not blame others. State what you have learned, how you plan to make amends, and what your sorority membership means to you.

It may not go in your favor, but you will know you have done what you can. At this point in the situation, it may be too late with membership already terminated, but that may depend on the org. At the least, you may leave knowing you did what you could. Good luck. College is a difficult time in many ways, and as a mom, I hope you move forward wiser and safer.

[Titchou]

Follow the procedure your national has laid out. That is your only option. We can't help you.

[thetalady]

are you already initiated?

Katmandu, I'm gonna try to take your advice and just see how appealing will work out. It could end well, but more than likely it will end bad, but I just don't want to give up. Thanks everyone for responding. Also AZTheta, you seem to know your stuff about greek life Thanks!