First glance/sight/blind date and/or internet turn offs - Page 2

nittanygirl · #1 11-07-2010, 02:37 PM

Co-sign on the bad teeth thing

or the grungy dirty greasy hair look. Get it through your heads kids, greasy ≠ emo

PiKA2001 · #2 11-07-2010, 02:43 PM

Being overweight.

OHNOITSJESS · #3 11-08-2010, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001

Being overweight.

agreed.

i also can't stand smokers. ick.

cheerfulgreek · #4 11-07-2010, 08:23 PM

There's too many to just limit it to just one, no fair.

Well, I don't like guys with tattoos, ear(s) or nose piercings. In fact, I don't like piercings anywhere on a guy's body, face etc. Since I can only choose one, I'll just group them all together and call it "body decorations". That's so unattractive.

victoriana · #5 11-08-2010, 01:01 AM

I would have do cosign on bad teeth and body decorations. Ew. Blech. No. Especially gauges... those just look stupid.

The big one is a guy who looks like he hasn't showered. A grungy guy, no matter how attractive, is just a major no go.

knight_shadow · #6 11-08-2010, 02:22 AM

LOL

I knew Sen and DS2 would be in here.

Now waiting for DS1...

Preston327 · #7 11-08-2010, 02:26 AM

A bad voice.

NinjaPoodle · #8 11-08-2010, 03:34 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Ugly feet.

We know. (I laughed)

Cornrows/JACKED up fro.

christiangirl · #9 11-08-2010, 03:44 AM

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Originally Posted by LikeASista

Well, I'm probably the only person in the world who hates them, but I just can't get into the dreadlocks.

And I don't mean "braids", which is altogether different. Dreadlocks, however, ...

You can be as "not" into them as you like without saying calling them unhygienic. I'm pretty sure you just offended at least 2 very well-groomed people.

ETA: Alright, y'all, I'm assuming you bathe. Don't make a liar out of me today.

LikeASista · #10 11-08-2010, 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl

You can be as "not" into them as you like without saying calling them unhygienic. I'm pretty sure you just offended at least 2 very well-groomed people.

ETA: Alright, y'all, I'm assuming you bathe. Don't make a liar out of me today.

Oooooops ...

I didn't mean to offend anyone intentionally. I guess that term was a bit unfair, huh? Didn't mean to sound so opinionated.

DaemonSeid · #11 11-08-2010, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow

LOL

I knew Sen and DS2 would be in here.

Now waiting for DS1...

I'm late but...ditto to what they said.

So, let me chime in by saying....

WEAVES

and it's funny because I have met some women over the years who said that they don't like dredds but yet and still they got that yucky yaki glued to their scalps.

So hey...you do you.

And as far as "unhygienic"...it's HAIR...it has to be washed just like any other hair...what's even more unhygienic is watching the weavalong sistas that haven't done anything to their heads in about a month and if you brush their scalp the wrong way it's like watching a sandstorm in their scalp.

So i have to take a slight offense to having locs being called unhygienic

LikeASista · #12 11-08-2010, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid

So i have to take a slight offense to having locs being called unhygienic

Sorry about that ...

Apparently, I used the wrong term, but I've met alot of people with them, and I just don't find them attractive at all. One reason for that is because it seems like it's difficult for the hair follicles to really breathe in that, ... uh, ... well, ... in that condition. Maybe I'm just too old school, but I don't particularly like them. And that's just me, ... so don't take offense. (I didn't get offended by the "overweight" comment somebody made earlier ... it's their personal preference, and they don't have to make apologies for it.)

I feel you about the weaves, though. LMAO!! I don't wear weaves for the same reason, ... it seems that it would be difficult to really penetrate the scalp for a good washing (I assume, at least). Some people wear weave that is glued, others wear weave that is sewn in. Either way, I would imagine it would be difficult. But that's just me ...

Lasonja · #13 11-08-2010, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Ugly feet.

Lol PrettyBoy, I'm talking about when you first see her, what is the first thing you notice that would turn you off? If she's wearing shoes that cover her entire foot, you wouldn't be able to know what her feet look like.

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

Lmao!

Drolefille · #14 11-09-2010, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Depending on the shoe, I can tell. If it's an old shoe, (mainly heels) I can tell because the toes will slightly protrude through the shoe, appearing as bumps. That's usually a sign of ugly toes/wide, flat feet..and/or a high possibility of corn cushions--can't mess with that. If it's a running shoe, or a new shoe, then you're right, I can't tell. But, in your OP, you said that from the start there's some kind of physical attraction. So, with that, if I like her, and she's someone I'm physically attracted to, and someone I could see myself as friends with first, then I would hang out with her until she eventually takes off her shoes, which always happens after a few dates. If her feet are jacked, then I just gained a friend. If she has pretty feet, then we can move to the next level.

All I can do is boggle at the idea of diagnosing someone's feet through their shoes...

And being opposed to flat feet? They're just feet O.o

Lasonja · #15 11-09-2010, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Depending on the shoe, I can tell. If it's an old shoe, (mainly heels) I can tell because the toes will slightly protrude through the shoe, appearing as bumps. That's usually a sign of ugly toes/wide, flat feet..and/or a high possibility of corn cushions--can't mess with that. If it's a running shoe, or a new shoe, then you're right, I can't tell. But, in your OP, you said that from the start there's some kind of physical attraction. So, with that, if I like her, and she's someone I'm physically attracted to, and someone I could see myself as friends with first, then I would hang out with her until she eventually takes off her shoes, which always happens after a few dates. If her feet are jacked, then I just gained a friend. If she has pretty feet, then we can move to the next level.

Most of the time, I can tell, though.
i.e.-----> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjS5zdsMmaM

Everyone has their own physical likes and dislikes, not everyone is going to be on the same page with that. This is just mine. Folks who are offended or think it's somewhat shallow, then okay, I'm sorry you read my post.

rotflmao!! Y'all, I am done, done, done, done. Lol! PrettyBoy, most men like breasts and butts. Black men especially are into that butt. Are you sure you're a black man? Feet? I'm just making sure, because I read one of your posts where you said you weren't into butts. Just checkin' Lol! I think if a man told me he was into my feet, and not my butt, I don't know how I would take that. What did your significant other say when you told her you were into her feet? I gotta hear this. Lol.