I would say try to make friends with some of the sorority women that you loved during recruitment.
Unfortunately, there was a girl who was *bestfriends* with several members, did informal recruitment the fall of her senior year, and still didn't get a bid. However, they stayed *bestfriends* and I always enjoy seeing her at various functions where we all would be invited. She's a wonderful woman, it just didn't work out for her.
I guess my point is, bid or not, sorority women are taught the deeper meaning of friendship, and tend to unknowningly pass it on to non-affiliated friends. And who doesn't like more good friends?
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