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12-17-2008, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by cincy
My question is, how do I know if this is the right thing to do? He is a lot different that other guys I have messed with and i hae never felt this way about anybody else. I am simply tired of waiting to get some, i have passes up I don't know how many guys, but this one feels right.
Any advice?
P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser.
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Virgin or untrained, you will never know until you try it. The best you can do is love yourself unlike any other.
And like others have said, please use one form of contraception and one form of barrier.
Look, you know it's going to hurt. So, ummm stretching is a good thing here. You won't really know your "erogenous zones", welp, you just not going to have that this go round. I'd say 3-7 times before your areas are pleasurably heightened. If not say after 10 times, then your "stimulus package" just has to be reached another way... Kinna what floats your boat kinna thing...
Here is an expressive place that might assist you...
I wouldn't recommend toys at this time--like the Durex Ring, it sounds like he may be unsure of the potency of his equipment, these things don't come with manuals, etc.
Just enjoy yourself with this person. The key is, if you can find intimacy with another person without touching or intercourse, you have a special thing...
Try to have an enriching experience. If your psyche is hurt, then you will know.
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12-17-2008, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted by cincy
P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser.
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What about a specific loser?
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12-17-2008, 11:33 PM
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
What about a specific loser?
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Thanks, sister - I laughed so hard I started wheezing from that.
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12-17-2008, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
What about a specific loser?
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
Thanks, sister - I laughed so hard I started wheezing from that.
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Oh my god, me too!!!!
And OP, if you're real, if you have to come on teh intarwebs and tell all of your most personal business because you need assurance you're ready, you're not ready.
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12-18-2008, 01:07 AM
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You know...I am sure there are 25 year old and older virgins out there. I bet there are even people on GC who are saving themselves. And that's totally okay to wait until you've met a specific loser to *ahem* lose it to. I mean as long as he meets all the specific criteria one sets out for a loser, why not?
So think of any guys you've known since 7th grade...then imagine doing it with them and thinking of what they were like in 7th grade, LULZ for days.
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12-18-2008, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
You know...I am sure there are 25 year old and older virgins out there. I bet there are even people on GC who are saving themselves.
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Right, and that's what I'm saying. If she's waited this long, why just give it up to somebody who she says "might make it official after Christmas." Chances are very good that he will NOT make it official and he'll want to stay "just friends."
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12-18-2008, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Right, and that's what I'm saying. If she's waited this long, why just give it up to somebody who she says "might make it official after Christmas." Chances are very good that he will NOT make it official and he'll want to stay "just friends."
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I'm sure there's a facebook group or a message board for virgins in their 20s who can talk about waiting for true love (or is it true love waits?). I have plenty of guy friends, and yeah, I am not interested in seeing any of them naked.
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12-18-2008, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by cincy
figured what out?
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Figured it wa he speart if ye waur Scottish. 
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Originally Posted by nittanyalum
Nah, you're a troll.
Saaayyyy... you wouldn't happen to know anything about guano or rainbows, wouldja?
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Funny how I wondered the same thing. 
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12-17-2008, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted by cincy
(thats right the only 19, almost 20 year old virgin left on the planet). I plan[ned] to wait until marriage but I don't thing that's going to happen.
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No you're not. I was 4 months shy of my 20th bday when it happened for me (I thought I was going to wait too), believe me you arent the only one out there. You'll know when it's the right time. Don't do it just to do it, but if it feels right, go for it. He's not sleeping with some other girl on the side is he?
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12-18-2008, 12:34 AM
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Wow KSU - you having a bad night? Two snarks in one night - I don't know if I can handle it.
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12-18-2008, 10:41 AM
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There is middle ground, you know.
Ever hear of a technical virgin?
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12-18-2008, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Kevin
There is middle ground, you know.
Ever hear of a technical virgin?
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I'd suggest anal.
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12-20-2008, 05:10 AM
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Even though you have known him for a long long time, you haven't known him like you do know. You know how he is in friendship, but not in a relationship. My advice is to wait.
I waited a year and a half to give mine up to my boyfriend who treated me amazingly and was my best friend... and he ended up breaking my heart by cheating on me with a girl from a completely different city and didn't tell me about it for 2 months- so I had to guess or he wouldn't have said anything.
I know that doesn't have to do with your situation, but all I'm saying is that waiting is the best thing to do just to see how they are in a relationship first and to just make sure that your feelings are legit and not just infatuation in a perfect disguise. I wish you the best of luck in this relationship though. 
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12-20-2008, 05:27 AM
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Last edited by PrettyBoy; 12-20-2008 at 05:35 AM.
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12-20-2008, 05:54 AM
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Originally Posted by cincy
Last night I gave in to my feelings and said it is very possible that it will happen soon.
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And when you did that "Chris" did this----------------->
Once you give "Chris" the nookie he might do this----->
It's time for me to go to bed because I'm over dying LMAO!!!!
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Last edited by PrettyBoy; 12-20-2008 at 05:56 AM.
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