Campus Visits and Sororities

[ASTalumna06]

Whoa.. what happened in this thread between yesterday afternoon and now? I'm so confused.

Kappa Mom, you basically said, "Don't call other girls dogs, take the higher road"

KSUViolet says...

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Umm, I don't see anyone saying here that that would be a good idea. I don't believe that a young woman interested in sororities would be silly enough to make such a mistake.

Even if this came off to you like an "attack", why would you call her a spoiled brat? How does that even make sense?

You could have simply said, "I know that no one here said that, but I was just trying to give some general advice, as I know that some girls talk badly about other sororities." That wasn't too hard.

I don't know KSUViolet personally, but from what I've read, she seems like a lovely person

[Kappa Mom x 2]

I have been observing for quite a while, thank you. I am sure that KSUViolet has many positive attributes, as you all must have,too. I don't care if I appear judgemental to you, I am simply reminding you that your words make an impact on people and to always use good judgement in what you choose to put out there on a medium where things last forever.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

I have been observing for quite a while, thank you. I am sure that KSUViolet has many positive attributes, as you all must have,too. I don't care if I appear judgemental to you, I am simply reminding you that your words make an impact on people and to always use good judgement in what you choose to put out there on a medium where things last forever.

You're the one calling names. I think you need to simmer down a little. Like I said, I'm generally a very agreeable poster and there was zero reason for you to call me a name.

[SWTXBelle]

To recap -

OP is told not to ask which sorority is "the dogs".

Mom says, "Don't refer to a sorority as the dogs."

It would seem that the two posters are in agreement. So, ladies, let's turn to Robert's Rules -

I move that no sorority be referred to as "the dogs". Do I have a second?

eta - of all the people I could think of here who could be referred to as "spoiled brats", I'd have to say that KSUViolet is one of the LEAST likely!

[Senusret I]

You're ridiculous.

"Simply reminding" is not what you did. You called someone a spoiled brat because of YOUR failure to comprehend what was being said.

[Kappa Mom x 2]

I defer to mob rule.

[SWTXBelle]

Well, at least we're not a cult.

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

I defer to mob rule.

Now you're thinkin'.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

Please, please do not refer to any sorority as "the dogs" on campus. Every sorority fills a need for some girl and has value. Please take the higher road.

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

You are supposed to be the moderator- act like an adult instead of a spoiled brat.

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

I have been observing for quite a while, thank you. I am sure that KSUViolet has many positive attributes, as you all must have,too. I don't care if I appear judgemental to you, I am simply reminding you that your words make an impact on people and to always use good judgement in what you choose to put out there on a medium where things last forever.

Originally Posted by Kappa Mom x 2

I defer to mob rule.

Please go back to lurking.