Advice

[winnieb]

Originally posted by James
Another thing . . A lot of people seem really understanding of the girl. I can't help but think that if it was a girl asking us for advice about dating a cheating male . .. people might have quite different and stronger opinions .. .

True?

True--- I'll be the first to admit you are right....

And on that note-- here is my response if it was a girl looking to date a cheating guy.....

Honey you don't deserve him. NO ONE needs a cheat in their life-- he will only cause you heartache. It is a matter of time before he is screwing around on you. Even if it is not sex--- he is commited to another person--he made that person a promise ane is now acting like an ass. No one deserves to be lied to-- not you and not the other person he is in a relationship with! And that jackass is probably feeding his g'friend a line or two about how much he misses her and loves her. You can do soooo much better. Tell him to screw off-- find someone who is unattached and worthy of you.

pretty much my original post would still stand.... if she is not trustworthy in her current relationship what makes you think you can trust her if you are with her... i would be a little blunt in my warning!!!