Total Closure

[UKDaisy]

I searched this topic before.....but most of the threads had specific topics.

How do you know whether or not you have closure with a past friendship or past relationship?


Like a year and a half later I still get upset when someone talks about the ex. But I really thought I was over it. And then I have a guy friend who every week says "its done. I"ve got closure."

But just yesterday my roommate found out her ex-bf broke up with his gf. And I said "well, since you didn't talk at all before maybe you need this time for closure." But she just looked at me and said "what is closure?"

So I guess thats my question: what is closure?

[XOMichelle]

James probably has something to say about this, don't you James?

Closure? When you can look back upon something without longing for it at all, perhaps even with a touch of nostalgia—that’s what I would say. I don’t know if it’s always something that happens, or has to happen.