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Originally posted by WVU alpha phi
Well I have a little update on the whole situation. He came over last night and I was talking about how my parents are coming to see me this weekend. He was like, "so am I good enough to meet your parents?" and I was like "Um I don't know, do you want to?" and he just kinda laughed and was like, "I don't know, then they might love me." I don't think I want to introduce him to my parents because I don't know how I would- like "Hey Mom, this is John, the guy I'm hanging out and hooking up with!" and I don't want her to get all involved in it like she usually tries to. Then later on in the night he brought up the relationship talk again and kinda said like "well do you just wanna be my girlfriend?" and I said "No, not if you're going to ask like that, just forget it, you told me where you stand" and then he acted like I had been all hurtful and rejected him. I only said that because he seemed like he asked in a joking matter AND he had been drinking earlier and even thoguh I don't think he was drunk, I don't want things to be like that.
Everyone's posts are really making me consider just breaking this off if he doesn't want me as a girlfriend. Are ultimatums (sp?) a bad thing?
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Look, you're not dumb, you can see through his b.s. and realize that even if you guys do start a relationship, this is the kind of attitude you'll have to deal with from him. From the sounds of it, you derserve a whole lot better and inside you are not interested in a crappy relationship.
So here are your options, date him and try to change his behavior (men love this scenario). Or give him to the sloppy seconds pigpen outside your door. In either case, it would be too soon to introduce to your parents other than the soon-to-be-fuck buddy. Hey, if he's around long enough, they'll get to meet him, but don't let his ego contaminate your birth givers.
Have fun this weekend.
RUgreek
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