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Originally posted by sugar and spice
I get what you're saying, but no, it's not their choice. She is still the one that has to carry the babies, and as the article pointed out, no matter how progressive her and Brad's relationship was or how much money she has, she will still end up doing more of the childcare than him. And so ultimately that is her choice.
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Sorry, but she gave up the right for it to be her choice and hers alone when she got married, just as he gave up the right for the question of kids to his choice when he got married.
If they are going to act like married people, its their choice -- a decision they make together and where they each take into account how the other feels, what the other wants, how the decision will affect the other (especially the other who will bear the children) just as much as they take into account what they themselves want. It's something they work through together to come to a decision they can both live with.
And I agree with you that lots of people, including the writer of the article, are making lots of leaps about what's going on. Frankly, it's no body's business but theirs what happened.
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