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It sounds like there's some stuff she's leaving out, because otherwise his behavior is utterly unexplainable -- it just isn't logical that their relationship would be perfectly great until she got off the airplane, at which point it immediately turned horrible. However, I'm not getting a good vibe from him either. He obviously had doubts about the whole thing much earlier than she did, and who allows someone to fly 1000+ miles to come live with you, with the plan of marrying you, when you're not ready for it?
It sounds like there were some major communication gaps in their relationship -- if you're not at a point where you can talk about the fact that things feel different now that you're in the same city, you sure as hell shouldn't be getting married! The entire time that she keeps complaining about how she couldn't talk to him about what was wrong or that he refused to talk to her about it . . . ummm, there is no way their relationship could be a good one. Communication is key when it comes to relationships, and it sounds like they could barely talk to each other!
Also, I'm not sure that his depression wasn't a much larger issue than they both were making it out to be . . .
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