Actually. What I meant is that it appears that your own self destructiveness killed the relationship.
There is no reason for the kids conversation to result in a fight. What were you thinking?
And why would you give him attitude showing your hurt and defensiveness when he is coming back and trying to have a sincere dialogue?
How does that help at alll? The scorched earth tactic in relationships is neither useful nor mature.
I think what AKA_Monet was alluding at the end of her post was wondering how mature you could be under pressure.
Whether you controlled your emotions or they controlled you, and whether or not if you were upset you could effectively behave and reason as if you were not.
This situation is not indicative of a failure of your relationship, or even of him, but rather your emotional control.
So it might be to his benefit that you revealed yourself to be easily moved to anger and bitterness over small matters.
At least thats what his friends should be telling him.
Maybe you should call and apologize.
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Originally posted by Queencece
Nice recap.
I don't know what happens next. I guess I take it one day at a time and move on.
To Rudey: I knew him well in high school. I just never thought of him as dating material until now.
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