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Originally posted by Lindz928
He may be certain now that he never wants kids. But, someday he will find a woman who will mean more to him than anything (and this could be you). At that point, I think there is a very good chance that he will realize that his life is not complete without this woman and children of their own. I have seen and heard it before.
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You may have seen and heard it, but that doesn't mean it's always true. There is nothing more frustrating than hearing "Oh you'll change your mind" or "You'll want a baby once you meet the right person" when you know you don't want kids. There are people who didn't want kids when they were 23 and still don't want them a decade later, just as there are people who have met the person who means more than anything and still don't want kids. If anyone gets into a relationship expecting someone to change his/her mind on this issue, she's more likely than not heading toward disappointment and anger down the road. There are plenty of people out there whose lives are complete without having kids. Who's to say this guy isn't one of them? I don't think any of us know, and it's up to Queencece to decide if she can live with that.
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