Not invited

[Lady Pi Phi]

Originally posted by CASIGKAP
My mom will NOT be attending b/c she was insulted that the rest of us were not invited.
My sister is undecided b/c she too is insulted but my cousin & her grew up together and were really close as kids & teens though they are both now in their 30's.

The couple is paying for the wedding themselves b/c they said that if they allowed family to help pay, they would have had to invite everyone including children. They do not like kids at all.

Finally, we were invited to her bridal shower. I was shocked b/c it is my understanding that you only invite wedding guests to your showers. You do not invite people who are not welcome to your wedding and expect them to bring gifts. However, we did receive e-mails telling us where she was registered. I am not giving her any gift except to tell her she sucks!

Holy crap!!!

Seriously, you cousin needs a smack upside the head.

I can understand not inviting kids. Many people do not invite children to their wedding.
But you are hardly a child.
She's aalready insulted your family by inviting only some and not the others. She has already told you she didn't want you at her wedding because of your Hispanic heritage.
She's over the top. I honestly think you should send her email telling how completely insulted that you were not invited to the wedding yet she expects a gift and tell her how offensive it is.