Why in the world should a lady be expected to join a house she didn't want to?

[James]

Ok, so based on the debate so far, I have another question.

Is there is a pool of desirable PNM's that don't end up placed because they would rather not be Greek than be Greek in an organization that they had made up their minds they didn't want to join?

I am thinking mostly about girls that either dropped out of rush when cut heavily in the first rounds, or didn't like the chapters they were given to Preference and then dropped.

Those girls would be lost to the system forever because they didn't want what they didn't want. And the less desirable chapters didn't get them either, so thats where the system breaks down for them also.