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Originally posted by AOIIBrandi
No one answered this, so I will try. It is not considered "dirty" on the part of the PNM. I would not say anything about liking a house sooo much at anytime, but during Pref it is certainly all right to tell the house you want that you like them - not in a pushy or *psycho* way. This actually can help you get the house you really want. After all the sororities are looking for women who want to be there, as well as for women they want - the best thing that can happen is that both are the same.
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good cause i was thinking that if the conversation was just about my major and other normal stuff the entire time then they wouldnt know that i really liked them. and of course i dont mean going overboard with it and just throwing myself at them telling them that it is the only place to be but a simple "i really like the house and i think that so and so is really great. i'd love to learn more about so and so." simple, and to the point. cause if it were considered dirty by any means then how would they know i liked them? cause i want them to know that i'm interested enough to invite me back and not think " oh well she's a nice girl but she didnt really show me she wanted to be here"
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At the U of Al we have 15 sororities and close to 1000 girls going through rush. This coming rush we will have 1200! At my house, before the parties start we each hide a shoe box somewhere in the house that is easily accessible in the short time between parties. We write the name of the girl we had, what she looked like (hair, clothes, etc.), and what we thought about her. We have a list of adjectives we use to help us be more descriptive (you don't want every girl in the house to use the word "nice", that does not really tell you anything about the girl). After all the parties are over that day, we vote on who to invite back. This is were your notes really come in handy. When your deciding on a particular girl you can give everyone a description of her to help jog their memory. If you did not meet a certain girl, you just have to trust your sisters that did.
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i think this is a great idea. it'd make me feel a lot better knowing that they were keeping up with me somehow. also the part about something flashy yet classy that they would remember is a great idea on a PNMs part.
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