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Originally posted by ISUKappa
I'm not saying she should lie. I'm saying she shouldn't feel like she has to answer if she is asked. She can simply say, "I prefer to not say. Even though I'm a legacy, I'm keeping an open mind about all the houses."
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I disagree with saying "I prefer not to say". That leaves a lot of questions unanswered. The chapter member is then spending her time trying to figure out why this girl won't tell her legacy chapter rather than trying to get to know the PNM. You can make it clear that you are keeping your options open and be up front about your legacy status at the same time. Refusing outright to say what chapter you are a legacy to may be looked on more negatively than just answering. It is a natural question and no one should be surprised if it is raised.
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