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Originally posted by ktkennyd
... However if you are flat out asked if you are a legacy DO NOT lie! Lieing is the worst thing you can do during recruitment because you usually get caught if not at that time, but later on and no one likes a liar.
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I'm not saying she should lie. I'm saying she shouldn't feel like she has to answer if she is asked. She can simply say, "I prefer to not say. Even though I'm a legacy, I'm keeping an open mind about all the houses."
Personally, I think it's kind of $hitty when girls in chapters ask. I was dumb and naive during recruitment and was open when asked where I was a legacy at. The next day I was cut from over half the houses. Unless I had my fly down all day, I'm almost positive the reason why is becuase I shared that info.
(yah yah, I know the chapters are the only ones that know why I was cut but I had a very good GPA, lots of activites and leadership experience and some very good conversations at most of the houses. I mean, I know I didn't gain my sense of fashion until after I had been in the house a few years, I didn't think I dressed that bad to get cut that hard!)
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