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Originally posted by cash78mere
i'm 26. at this point i wouldn't even date someone who had been married before, let alone marry him. as i get older, that opinion may change (although i hope the guy i'm dating is the ONE)
anything over 3 marriages just seems excessive. i guess it depends on the circumstances.
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I agree with you! I am young, and - in my opinion - quite a catch. I think I have the right to be picky and when I live out the typical girl "fantasy" of being proposed to, getting married, going on my honeymoon, setting up a house and living happily ever after, I want it to be new and exciting for both of us - not "old hat" for him. This means that I do write off men who have been married before and I don't ever start dating them. Judgemental and unfair? Maybe. But there are a lot of other great guys out there and I'm sure I can find a non-divorcee to make me happy. And I am sure that the great divorcees can find someone else to make them happy besides me.
Now, I may change my tune in a couple years if I am friends with someone first or find myself in a a situation where I want to open myself up to the possibility of dating someone who's been married. But, for the most part I am strongly opposed to divorce so, now, no.
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