I don't know if I want my son to pledge.

[LPIDelta]

I agree with lifesaver. The best thing you could do for your son (and the Greek system!) is teach him to make good decisions--to be a person of character and and man with the courage to support his convictions.

When he's ready for school and if he chooses to go Greek, help HIM research the chapters on campus. You know what questions to ask--encourage him to ask them.

If you did your job as a parent, it won't matter what the chapter wants him to do will, he'll make the right decisions.