Twinstars is right. You will know where you belong and where you want to be a sister by the second to last day of rush. I did. I knew a couple of the sisters before I even went through rush.
My biological sister is a Zeta and she was actually a Rho Chi when I was going through. That was really difficult b/c I didn't want to disappoint her but at the same time I wanted to keep an open mind. But I ended up going ZTA. It was tough to choose though. I wouldn't trade it for the world!
As twinstars said, you may not even get into your top two picks. I served on the Panhellenic Council on my campus and saw a handful of girls who knew where they wanted to go on the first day and when they were cut by them, they were devastated but went on with rush and they're now in a sorority that they love. That happened to one of our girls. She cried and cried the day she received her bid but now she serves on our Executive Council and loves being a Zeta. All I can tell you is keep an open mind about the other sororities b/c you never know what will happen during rush. I don't mean to scare you but it's true. But every rush is different. Do you hang out with some of the sisters from your top two choices? You're going to have the time of your life during rush. Have fun and don't stress out too much! Happy Holidays!
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