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I think this is one of those subject superficial reason why people don't date certain people.
Just some like some people refuse to date some one who is overweight or even a little bit chubby, while there are other who will only date extremely obese people. Other's will ownly date blondes, some will only date people with money. It's all superficial and it's all a matter of personal preference.
Is it right. No. Are they limiting potential stisfying relationships. Of course they are. I've been single for a loooooooooooooooong time and I know there are superficial reasons why people aren't interested in me. It's hurts like hell but I'm not going to be blind to the fact that some people base relationships on things that are considered superficial.
I tried dating someone with unmedicated severe depression. I was awful. Why? Because I also suffer from depression and everything he was going through I had gone through and was still going through it. But he didn't want to realize he had a problem and when I told him I didn't want to see him anymore he blamed me and all women for his problems. That's not someone I want to be with. That has all the makings of a co-dependent relationship.
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