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Originally posted by HBADPi
I guess I should have phrased it better, I'm not saying that girls join just for the partying or not at all. HB had a lot of girls that were not interested in doing the party scene, wouldnt even go to our own crush parties etc. So yes for girls like that, more productive aspects of a sorority would be more appealing. My point was when a PNM is torn between two houses I dont really think its the philathrophy that sells one house over the other, I would think (and hope) how well they got along with the sisters and if she could see herself in that house would be more important factors.
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And I completely agree with you
I think some of us wish that these are the ideas that would be promoted in a book about Greek Life, rather than the stereotypical "negative" thoughts everyone has about Greek life already. Just like no one (hopefully) would walk through the door and say that I want to join the house with the best philanthropy, (and I'm not trying to make a joke here, I promise), no one (hopefully) walks through the door and says I want to join the house with the least number of eating disorders or the most parties per week, etc.