75 Lessons that MUST be learned in relationships

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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

6. Don't force an attraction.


16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.

47. All men are NOT dogs.


52. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.


57. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work.


59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted.


74. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.

Lawd, yes!! #59!! I've been saying this to myself for the past month or so.