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Originally posted by BlueReign:
Sad to say Rhoyal Silence, you are not alone. I feel that I am too independent and I see that the "good ones" are usually taken by women who are needy, dependent, and want to be taken care of.
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Right question, wrong answer. Men, especially insecure men, do not want women who will challenge everything about their manhood. That is, their ability to provide for and protect their mate. If everytime something goes wrong, the woman says "I don't need you, I got my own" or "I can do for my self", the man feels that this attitude is directed at diminishing his manhood. That is why many insecure Black men opt for the woman who does not have her life together or the less challenging and confrontational white woman. I don't fall into this category, but I know plenty brothers like that.
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