Baby Daddy/New Girlfriend

[IncontRHOllable]

Sorors and sisterfriends,

Since we are talking about BD and BM, it seems from the thread that not too many of us would have a problem with dating a person with children with certain stipulations like them revealing that info upfront and taking care of them, etc. Would you feel the same way if it were your younger sister or daughter who wanted to date a man with children? What if the man was a good guy who takes care of his children, would you want him dating your younger sister or daughter?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

Would you feel the same way if it were your younger sister or daughter who wanted to date a man with children? What if the man was a good guy who takes care of his children, would you want him dating your younger sister or daughter?

If I had a younger sister and she chose to date a man with children, I will be honest, I would not like it, but I could not stop it. Especially if she is older in her late 20's and 30's+.

Let me flip it. I have a younger brother, he has a son, if he dated a Black woman with 1 kid that is ~3+ years old, I would not have issues. But, if he dated any kinna woman who had a <3 month old infant... I would have a BIG problem with that. But, then he's old enough to do his own thang because he is 35 years old and he can make is bed and lie in it...

That woman would have to have a "magic coochie" for my brother to worship the ground she walks on.

Then again, my brother does not believe in baby's mama's although he, himself, has a son.

[Neo_Soul1922]

I was at a wedding where the bride-- was about 19-- and was marring a man that was about 20 years older, he had grown children-- and grandchildren

[Luckie1922]

Originally Posted by Neo_Soul1922

I was at a wedding where the bride-- was about 19-- and was marring a man that was about 20 years older, he had grown children-- and grandchildren