Is it Better to Know?

[TonyB06]

Originally posted by o2bame
LOL@re re retarded. yeah i heard that song before. to expand the question would you want to know if the man/woman you were with, cheated on you in the past but was truly sorry about it and never did again. Would you want to know about it later down the road? (i hope what im asking makes sense)

(again, assuming the relationship was exclusive when the cheating went down...)

also assuming the relationship was basically on-point when the person decided to disclose, (and there were no known health issues that resulted) what would be the point of the disclosure? Love, with hard work, perhaps can be rebuilt. Trust cannot, not totally, anyway. IMO, the relationship might yet be worth fighting for, but I don't think I could ever mentally commit 100 percent like I was before the disclosure.