my rant: why are boys so stupid?

[Rio_Kohitsuji]

I'm kinda on the guys side on this one. I mean, think about if you really really love chocolate, and this one person always gave you chocolate. One day out of the blue they told you they didn't want to give you anymore chocolate. Wouldn't you be upset?

Also, you could damage the relationship futher by the no-sex/physical-fun-stuff because all the males I've ever been friends w/have always said at times w/their girls pull this on them they will think, "What? Am I not good enough for her now?" etc. and their self-confidence will lower when getting intimate again. So, once you wanna get playful in the sack again, he may not want to jump back in w/you.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I really feel sorry for the guy. It sounds like you just sprung into this new philosophy w/o considering his feelings about it or even clue him in on what was on your mind.

--Kayla