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A couple of years ago two girls going thru rush together became close and both wanted us on bid day. Well that day they decided they would open each others bid day cards.. well one of the girls didnt get us... imagine the other poor girl having to give her friend a bid day card that didnt have the sorority she wanted on it! It was awful! not to mention after she ran down the steps to the other sorority she ran over to our group and cried.. right in front of her new sorority sisters! (thats the part I didnt like) well, she stayed with xyz up until the last week of pledging and then depledged. she ended up getting COBed by the sorority (we only have three!) on campus and seems really happy. I think things happen for a reason. I know when I was going thru rush I signed my pref card, I thought, I can be happy with either phi mu or XYZ. but I know now I was born to be a phi mu! my advice, give her some time to adjust... and if she sticks it out, you have to believe she really wants it!
Tiffany
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