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Originally posted by James
A lot depends on that time spent quotient. The All Knowing They say that sublimated sexual attraction might be at the base of all male female relationships . . . a lot of contact is more likely to make that attraction bloom. Take it as a compliment.
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Don't get me wrong. It's flattering, and sweet. And it means more knowing that they didn't feel that way when they first met me, but it was my personality that made it happen. Fine. Great. But it is kind of upsetting when you start friendships going"We're so platonic! This is awesome!" and then you just feel like you've been lied to....and I know it isn't always deliberate but it is kind of a let down sometimes.
And you don't want to start every friendship going "just so you know, I have no attraction to you...." b/c then it makes it sound like you just assume everyone's attracted to you...God could a person sound more conceited?
OY such is life.
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