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Originally posted by lil_princess05
I just talked to my Rho Chi, and she said that it was perfectly fine to wait until fall. She encouraged me to go to the houses during this semester to get a feel for how a new member semester is going to be. She also said that if I needed to I could go through formal recruitment, to get a better understanding of each sorority. I just need to let them know that I'm still considering their bid, I just don't have enough information to make a lifelong commitment. She totally understood about my friend as well. So, maybe I will get my happy ending after all. I'm also going to use this semester to get my grades back up to a 3.0+, then if I still wanted to go through during the fall, I might even get another bid from the house that didn't give me one last week. I have a lot on my plate right now, but I know that I will have to strive to my best ability, if I want to succeed in a sorority and in life.
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Good deal. Do the orgs know why you are not accepting a bid at this time? If you never tell them they might think you are totally not interested, which isn't the case. You don't have to go into great detail, but a small explanation may help.
Good luck and stick around!! Never know what kind of excitement you'll see on GC!
PsychTau
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