I see ya'll are making a sistah come back in here!
I think people are socialized to act a certain way if they are approached by a homosexual. They also get worried about the fact that they may be sending a "vibe". Sorry folks, if you look good then YA JUS LOOK GOOD! Lesbians like pretty women too. !
It's actually funny to see people that believe they can "spot" every gay person. I know plenty of gay males that play on the football team at my school and I know plenty of skirt sportin', perfume loving, make-up wearing lesbians.
I think people just need to come to terms with the fact that gays are EVERYWHERE. (humming theme to "Twilight Zone") *lol*
We're in your classes, in your family, and in your workplace. We might have taught you how to read or how to drive. Maybe we were your best friend in Middle School or your buddy in High School gym class. We are in every NPHC organization whether you like it or not.
I read in another forum that some people put gays in the same class as criminals or abnormal people. They stated that they the avoid them whenever possible. At first I was angry, but then I had to laugh because they really thought that they are living a "gay-free" life, if you will. Sorry...it's not possible.
I'm seriously thinking about getting out of my college before I pursue my sorority interest. It's just too petty on this level. Graduate isn't totally stigma free, but it's better than what I'm seeing now.
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