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Originally posted by btb87
Honestly, Soror, I believe in order to keep the peace, you might wanna consider having his sister(s) in the bridal party. If they turn you down, then so much the better, but contrary to what anyone says, you ARE marrying his family as well as him although you won't be living with them. Not only may it hurt their feelings, it will (IMHO) "subliminally" be sending him a message that you don't care for his family. I think you should do it as a courtesy. And believe you me, someone will come up to his mom and ask "Why wasn't Sandra in the wedding?"
Sometimes you hafta do things to keep the peace. Why you? Well, sometimes we have to be the bigger person.
That's just my $.08 worth.
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See, this is how I know that I am not ready to be married any time soon. I would not even think twice about not including his family as my bridesmaids. If we are not very close friends, then why should you be in my bridal party? People can ask about Sandra all they want but if they aren't putting up any money, their opinions really won't matter.
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