I thank you all for your responses.
dyhardque: I dealt with my ex-boyfriend because he DID have respect for my relationship or at least he portrayed to have respect. And YES, I am madly in love with my boyfriend. I've been with him for 5 years and I have NEVER been tempted to cheat. My boyfriend's self esteem is very high, he doesn't have to worry. I told my boyfriend about it the very next day and was having NO second thoughts about it. And I did avoid the situation by not calling my ex back like he asked me to. I was TOTALLY shocked by it, that's why I even listened. It came out of no where.
Everybody: My ex has been in the military for a year. Since then, he feels that he is un/indistructable (sp?) (no body can harm him). I think that is why he grew the b#@ls to even ask.
Here's my motto when it comes to my boyfriend: Why go back to a syrup sandwich (my ex) when you have that mega-super-dooper sub that has everything that you like on it (my man)?
(I like using these examples) Then you may ask, what if a man attempts to be with you and you don't know what kind of sandwich he is? My answer is....I don't want to possibly dissapoint myself, because I have what I have, and that is MY BABY!!!
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Set your goal!! Strive!! Bask in your reward!!
Positive Kay
[This message has been edited by Positive Kay (edited August 17, 2000).]
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