Staying Over at my Boyfriend's Fraternity House

[AllisonDG]

Originally posted by amazinglagirl
I am SO surprised at this thread...that there are basically like two people who have said anything remotely close to telling this girl NOT to do it...and that's IT?!?!?

She has dated this guy for six WEEKS, people!! Not six months...not six years!! This is not a relationship!!...I've had "accquaintences" I've known MUCH longer!

And what happened to moral decency? I mean, there are tons of people posting "oh, well if it's a random 'hookup' then people will talk, but this is 2003..." screw that!!! Why is it NOT okay if it's a random hookup but it IS if you've gone out with the guy more than twice?!? This is SO messed up!

Plus, this girl is a FRESHMAN!! HELLO????? I can't really be the only girl out there who believes that you should at least try to preserve some shred of decency about your sexual behavior. It is PRIVATE and everyone on here is like oh, it's no big deal...and it may be...but if that attitude persists, then random hookups will soon be no big deal either....and NONE of this is private if it takes place in a frat house.

So, while we're all voting,....I vote NO!...(and for the record, I vote no in this situation even if he lived alone...) but maybe that is just because I am living in the "dream world" of thinking that sex should be something that you and your partner in marriage share together.

By the way, if you are not yet in a sorority, and you plan to rush in the south, do not even THINK about doing this...you will be doomed to be dropped from all the good ones who still regard appropriate social ettiquette and good reputation as one of the cornerstones of membership in good standing.

Well...i guess i have no decency because i sleep over my boyfriend's practically every night. We started doing that after about a month. Do whatever you want Catie... I honestly do not think that sororities will think you have "no moral decency" and on top of that you could probably meet some cool girls...i am good friends with a couple of the other girlfriends who are always at the house.
This makes me really glad that I went to school in the north where I can live like it is 2003.