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Old 11-20-2003, 05:47 PM
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While I think it's a little sad that you aren't getting attention from her, I don't think you should worry about it too much. I had a big that seemed extremely excited about getting me, and was perfectly nice to me, but never "connected" with me. I just pursued relationships with other active sisters and connected extremely well with many of them. I have about 3 women who were in my big's pledge class that acted as bigs for me when it came to me needing a sister to turn to.

The same can be said for my little. While I definitely made sure to be a "better" big, she and I were good friends, but I did became more of a big to some other girls in her pledge class. Sometimes you pick a big or little because they seem the perfect fit after your first couple weeks pledging, but remember that you barely know one another yet. There may be better fits that you hadn't met by the time you picked bigs. Remember, while it's always fun to become best friends with your big, there are tons of women in your chapter to form wonderful, close bonds with!

Good luck!
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