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I don't know, DeltAlum - I still think there's a need for discussion of how you think and hope your future together will shape up. Yes, you will change as the years progress, and you have no way of knowing now what sort of person you'll be in 5 or 10 years, or what sort of person your spouse will be. But if you can't even agree right now on, say, whether or not you want children, then maybe getting married isn't such a hot idea.
I agree, though, that you should both be committed to "'til death do us part" and work through minor problems rather than throwing up your hands and getting a divorce when the going gets rough. Major problems, such as abuse, are of course another matter.
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