Soror, I do not know what has happened to humility. As I have said before, back when I pledged, the internet was only available to the government and to some institutions of higher learning. NO SORORITY INFORMATION WAS ON THE WEB!!!!! If I had the internet back then, I would have quietly searched for information in the privacy of my own room. I would never ask questions. There is no need, because all of the answers to everything that an interestee could possibly need to know is on the net (on web pages where no dialogue is necessary). Back in the early nineties (Soror AKA2D, I know you hear me), you did not even let sorority members know that you were interested. We did all research on the down low (that meant speaking to only trusted greeks, reading BOOKS and magazine articles, ect). By using common sense, I was able to abide by the "rules" of discretion. Everything is so much easier when it comes to finding information, but by hearing some sisterfriends, you would think that they are deprived of info. It all makes me feel nostalgia for the "old days" before the internet was easily accessible. Sisterfriends, believe me you already have FAR more information than I did when I spent my first night on line(or second or third). Be mindful of what Sorors are telling you. Some things are NOT MEANT for you to know as a sisterfriend, and sometimes when we sound harsh in here, it is to help you avoid hearing the harshness later. You would much rather hear it from us in here than from a Soror at rush.
Just my .08 cents worth!
[This message has been edited by pretty3grl (edited May 14, 2001).]
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